but I am so tired of other parents constantly denying their childs part in a problem and continuing to cause drama. Tonight I delt w one set of parents like this. Their daughter called my daughter and said she wanted to be friends again, after my kid got all excited this girl called her back and said it was just a joke, she didn't want to be friends. This kid also told me her mom had lung cancer and had boorrowed a purse from my kid. Sick of the drama , I called the parents, asked for the purse back and said honestly that I don't know who started the problem but this is what their kid did. After two weeks they still didn't return the purse, so I called and simply asked for the purse. The mother started to scream at me saying I had issues, I said the only issue I had was the purse, finally they said they would bring it right over. Over they came and immeditaly started yelling at me I told them i just wanted the purse, they are still outside yelling at my window what do i do?
2006-08-28 15:18:28 · 9 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok listen...there are CRAZY people in this world. i got a good taste of it 2 weeks ago. people do not know how to communicate. they scream and cuss and turn red in the face. i just laugh at them. i laughed hysterically at this psycho i worked with (until she quit because we laughed at her so much). you just take your daughter, point to the 'screamers' and drive home the point that communicating in an appropriate manner is what we call 'mature'. some people will always be skanky imbeciles. it's not our job to judge. just to laugh. tell your daughter that ladies need to retain composure.
i think i would have smiled sweetly, said 'thank you so much' and 'have a nice evening', closed the door and LAUGHED. do you watch desperate housewives? think bree vandekamp. she is my role model (minus the alcoholism and other illegal moves)
2006-08-28 15:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile sweetly, and think how sad it is that they are the ones setting an example for their daughter. Very dis-heartening.
Refrain from bashing the parents in front of your daughter. It is the other little girl who has the problem with poorly socialized parents. I would not give them the time of day while they are acting like that. Basically, encourage other friendships with your daughter. She already knows this girl is not a true friend.
2006-08-28 15:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that you need to let your daughter deal with some of her own problems. You can't call parents over something so small as a purse. Your daughter needs to learn to handle her own problems and you need to learn to let her. I'm sure you had nothing but good intentions but I think you overreacted in this situation.
2006-08-28 15:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and when they get there have them arrested for trespassing. I would tell my kid not to talk to that child again. I am going thru something simular with a kid on my daughters ball team.
2006-08-28 15:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops... and some parents are just as dumb as their kids... But its only a purse... Maybe their that poor that they cant afford things...
2006-08-28 15:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you got the purse. Call the cops!!
2006-08-28 15:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they wont leave call the cops.
2006-08-28 15:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Luna V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops...
2006-08-28 15:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them
2006-08-28 15:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋