there so many ppl that need children and since i can get pregnant why not get pregnantg a few times so that i can give to them
2006-08-28 15:17:58 · 45 answers · asked by sexy luv 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There are a lot of babies out there, waiting to be adopted already. Before you do something like this, I would say you might want to do a little more research. Check into surrogacy too. You don't want to get pregnant, just to hand a child to an adoption agency when they have a list a mile long, of babies and children without families.
2006-08-28 15:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a noble gesture for sure, but there are already way too many people having kids that shouldn't be. And while I'm not saying you shouldn't or couldn't handle the bear, there are just too many people adopting kids who should not be. Please read the article below and a story that just broke today. It is terribly sad, but goes to show how flawed the system is in terms of adoption/fostering...I advocate adoption, because I was adopted myself. But to become impregnated just to give a stranger a child is not the right reason, especially when there are sick people in this world like those mentioned below.
http://news.enquirer.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060828/NEWS01/308280025
2006-08-28 15:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Instead of doing adoption, look into being a surrogate mother. That way the parents to be are with you all the way supporting you etc. and as soon as the child is born it will have a set of parents. If you go through adoption the child would have to be placed in foster homes and such places untill a couple is found and all the legal paperwork is finished.
2006-08-28 15:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by yello_flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are already a lot of kids out there who need a healthy, loving home. Sadly, a lot of people who want to adopt only want newborns, and a lot of older kids get stuck in foster homes. How about you become a children's advocate or a Big Sister instead? That would do a lot more good, I think.
2006-08-28 15:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it can go either way. You are right in saying that there many people who want children that can't and in a way you may be doind the right thing but just realize the pain you would put the children through when they find out that the person they are living with is not their biological family and they are not allowed to see you again.
2006-08-28 15:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Jack Sparrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is your reason i think its great, but make sure you do it properly the correct prenatal care and i would want to make sure the right or a good family is adopting my baby, so researching the right agencies ect would be important. remember not everybody who wants a baby really should have a baby and are all environments safe stable good environments, i dont care how much money or prestige they have, people must be checked out, a background psychological profile and all. on the other hand i know there are wonderful loving parents praying every day for god to bless them with a baby, if you actually think you could do it, i believe youd get attached unless you just want to be a seragant mother and its for the money. its likely for the rest of your life youll wonder where your child is and if they are ok every year when their birthday comes around.and i promise you they will wonder where you are and why you left them, how would you like to think as your child "my mommy didnt love me or want me, why?" thats all i have to say for you to think about>and that this is not about you anymore and what you want to do if the circumstances rendered then its a blessing for a child whose single mother wanted more for her child than she could offer, or was she just ashamed? who will ever know but who has to wonder about it all their life ,...the child e:mail me and let me know what you think OK? betsyturminyen@yahoo.com
2006-08-28 15:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by betsyturminyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a nice thought, but why not just donate eggs so that another woman can have a baby. Just out of curiosity, you wouldnt have a problem not knowing where your kids are and if they are ok and being raised by honestly "good" people.? There are so many people out there that i don't think have good values and morals and i would never want to subject my kids to those people. How would you know if the people who got your baby are truly worthy?
2006-08-28 15:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well hun that is a personal choice but you also haft to take the child's feelings into consideration, one day they might want to know there real mother. As some one that can't have children of My own I think it is a wonderful gift but ultimately you must think of the child.
2006-08-28 15:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it.
i have watched my wife have 2 children and i can safely say, YOU WOULD HAVE TO BE CRAZY TO DO THAT!
pregancy is no joke. save yourself for the kids you may want to have. you body is only going to bounce back so many times. eventually, you will lose your figure. some lose it after the first.
plus, kids who have lost parents, have abusive parents, etc. need families. you shouldnt replace an already needy kid with some kid you had just to add to the population.
talk to your parents and friends, give this one some thought before proceding. i think you're nuts.
2006-08-28 15:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by injection_od 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES !!!
I believe you are looking for money! You must be young, there is alto more then getting pregnant and giving the baby away. Get a job. Nothing personnel.
2006-08-28 15:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by black jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋