i'm with a girl, who is emotionaly unstable, and is sucidel, 100% control freak, doesn't like any of my friends, and doesn't like me associating with other people. without her okay. the only social life i have outside of my work life is un existant, but i met a girl through work, that i really like. she's carefree, open minded, doesn't care about consiquinces, except when it comes to my well being, for example: i've been stabbed, Literaly in the hand, by this person that i am having a relationship with, have had to go to work with black eyes, and big lips, i don't know how to get out of this relationship, because she will harm herself, and i'll get blamed by her family. any thoughts on how i should handle this? Please Help!
2006-08-28 15:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by Cari A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well your in a kind of difficult situation. But males although abused probably more often than reported should not live under this situations like this - neither should women. But if you fear that this lady will self-harm then speak with her family and inform them of your intentions and also if you know her doctor than let him know of what is going on also. Perhaps you'll be helping this lady by giving her the travel card and moving on to a new healthy relationship for yourself. You cannot take on her emtional makeup if she decides to harm herself if she trys to hurt herself. Your a human and not placed on this earth to act as a savour for this woman. Good luck to you.
2006-08-28 15:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 20:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by styons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. this is tough. Speak with her family about this situation, since it seems like they are the deciding factor. If they are rational, fair people, they should let you go and try to comfort their daughter as much as possible. You are valiant for staying with her this long. I hope you get a better girl in the future!
2006-08-28 15:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by reba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you both could use some heavy counseling. You must have had your eyes closed when you first net this young lady.Take the cloths on your back and run like hell in the other direction NOW.She'll go back home ??
2006-08-28 15:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by D Grass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her girl or guy assult should not happen. you need someone who will treat you right but just dont cheat if you like this other person then wait til you have broken it off with you current partner just becareful how you do it though she may get violent and stalk you she sounds like a phsyco.
2006-08-28 16:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really ****** up and sound like a looser! You are choosing to stay so stop complaining! So, she is suicidal.....not your problem! So, let he harm herself.......she is sure doing a great job harming you! Be done with all of you!
2006-08-28 15:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Get away fast! Do you live with this person? Move out. Don't answer the phone when she calls. Avoid her completely. Don't say anything. Just get away and stay away.
2006-08-28 15:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by James L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a shrink.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 15:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still with her
2006-08-28 15:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be , let her be.
2006-08-28 15:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by J.M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋