I don't know I feel unloved. I need some help?

Question

I feel as if no one likes me right now. And I just feel sad for some reason. I told my mom about this and she didn't know what to say. Ithink I would feel a lot better if I knew some boy at school liked me. I know I sound stupid right now but I just feel depressed.

I'm just asking, what can I do to stop feeling this way. I apologize for not being clear.

Sometimes I do think of suicide but this is only when I've had a REALLY horrible day and I feel like EVERYONE hates me. This has only happened once or twice before.

Answer 1

If you continue to think of suicide, or if you don't get out of it soon, see a doctor.

Good ideas: exercise, drink water, sleep well, exercise drink water, spend a small amount of time in the sun (do not sun tan, just get out there a bit, oh also exercise and water.

Oh, someone suggested some natural medicine (St Johns Wort). It is worth a try, but it should not be taken lightly. Natural medicine can also have some really bad side effects, especially when combined with prescription medication.

Answer 2

I take St. John's Wort. You can get it at Wal-Mart in the Herbal & Vatamin section. It's only about $4.00 for 120 pills. It is a mood enhanser and I think that it really does help. You should probobly ask your Mom though. And don't rely on a boy for self esteem. It doesn't work out that way. It usually back fires and makes you feel worse. He'll say something stupid or piss you off and you'll be right back in your sad mood. This couls also be caused by low self esteem. Try doing something active, like riding your bike, going on a walk, or jogging. This will help eleivate your mood because exercise lets off edorphines. It may also be cause by hormones because your changing a lot right now. You may get used to it as you get older but it doesn't usually go away completly. I really do hope you feel better soon sweetie. I know exactly how you feel - I felt that way all through high school. I've been out of high school almost 5 years now and I still feel this way some times. Please tak some of my advice - at least try it out for a minute. An trust me about the boy thing - I REALLY know what I'm talking about there. The only regrest I have in life are due to males. Have a great night & feel better soon. If you need anyone to talk to send me an e-mail!

Answer 3

Being a teen is likely the hardest part of your entire life. I remember high school. I was a complete outcast. I had my share of girlfriends, but now, 13 years later, it really amounts to nothing. Life is a lot more than being popular, of having boyfriends, although right now it may be really hard to see.
My best advice is simply to be yourself. Don't ever change who you are or compromise on your principles to make people like you. God made you just the way you are, and in that, you are beautiful. Your social life will come when in needs to, but now is the best opportunity that you have to take a free ride into the future. Do your best, and aim for college, and make life easier for you when your social life does matter.
Never forget who you are, and love yourself. Once you can look in the mirror and say "I love me", then the rest of the world will be able to love and appreciate you for the beautiful person that you are.

Answer 4

We like you. It seems as if you are a young person and maybe you are experiencing some new changes in your life, you need that void filled and you feel maybe it needs to be love and understanding-even if from a nice boy in school. Have you thought of writing? Getting involved in sports? Volunteer work? There is something about giving back to others when you are feeling low because the focus is off yourself. I am very familiar with this feeling because my self esteem dipped real low when I started school, and I felt I no longer needed to be here one earth. But you know what? That is selfish, because I had friends and family who were right by my side no matter what. I'm sure you have family and friends who love you regardless and if not, you have Yahoo Answers! members and God, He loves you too.

Answer 5

The feeling you are experiencing happens to almost all teenagers at some point and it sucks. Write down all the things that are truly making you angry right now and when you are finished, maybe have a good cry while you burn them (or get rid of them safely). Just let out your anger and sadness. If the feeling continues, call the depression hotline to talk to somebody about it... 630-482-9696 ...good luck babe, you rock!

Answer 6

Just pray and remember that God Loves you. I know how that i use to feel unloved but I started to read the bible,and started to listen the music that cheered me up and I got over it and I know you will too. I will be your friend if you need one. And start talking to people @ school you would not usually talk to and just have fun and make friends. I might not know you but know that everything will work otu for good and try keeping God in your life i don't know how old you are but if you need a big sister or a little sister I am here for you.
GOD BLESS!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Do you go out and do Activities with Friends or Whatever? Cuz being depressed is not a healthy thing cuz I had to take Meds to help me with my Depression cuz I had an urge to do Suicide but thank god I told my Therapist this problem I've been having since I was 9 years of age!

Answer 8

Just remember, your family will always love you. Your friends may love you too. Also, if you believe in God then God loves you. I love you, but not in the "I want to date you" way because I don't know you. You don't need to know if a boy likes you that way to feel better. Sometimes I feel this way, but I have to know that people do love me. So you should realize people do love you.

When you feel like suicide will help, tell yourself it won't. It's a selfish act, and it causes pain to those who love you. You have to remember that there's always someone who loves you. Yeah I felt the same way you do now when I was in 7th grade, but there had been so many changes in my life that I don't feel that way anymore.

If you believe in God, pray to him. It will help. You should also see a school counselor. If worse comes to worst, go see a doctor about it.

Answer 9

All normal people have days that are not so good. This is especially so for young people. Don't worry about a boy "liking" you. To young people, that may seem very important....but as time goes by you will find that it is not as important as you thought. One will come along...be patient.. To have friends, be a friend. Stay busy.....school, church, volunteer work....an idle mind is the devil's workshop. If you get so far down you think of suicide.....see a doctor immediately. Pops

Answer 10

Honey You are an amazing person, you know why??Because no one is like you!! You are unique, every single person is unique in their way...and everybody has flaws of course...YOU SHOULDNT BE SAYIN THAT NO ONE LIKES YOU! Ur time will come when a guy likes you...GIVE SOME TIME TO TIME...I KNO is hard to wait but You HAVE TO WAIT! cuz if you dont then..you will miss a lot of beautiful things inyour life....OK??Dont make boys a priority..make you family and goals the first thing in your life...Boyfriends come and go, but family NEVER! ok?? And by the way, dont be so selfish and think about your mom, and your mom's pain, and EVERYBODY that loves you whenever you think about suicide....And remember Jehovah God will lead your way out if you pray to him.