"best friend" tells you that she is sick and tired of trying to be your best and that you need to find a new one what would you think
and she said this because i wouldnt ditch my boyfriend to stay the night at her house
2006-08-28 15:05:10 · 15 answers · asked by so-lost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you don't need a "best-friend" like her because she's really selfish. If you still want to be the friend of her, explain to her that you don't like her attitude. If she doesn't understand, it's easy for you not to be her friend. A true friend isn't like that.
2006-08-28 15:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by fiona_rabbit2013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is missing spending time with you and feeling like she is now 2nd best to your boyfriend. All you need to do is stop and think a minute......what if your boyfriend broke up with you...you would still want your best friend wouldn't you? But since you spent all your time with your guy and she moved on to a new best friend....now you would feel alone. It is okay to balance everything, time for family, friends, boyfriends...it makes you much more rounded and not all your eggs in one basket as they say. Make time for her........she misses you. Best friends are sometimes hard to come by, so take time to appreciate her.
2006-08-28 15:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has issues with your relationship with your boyfriend... not you. Maybe your relationship isn't as fast paced as it used to be because you are with someone. It was a poor choice of words, but I think she needs a little compassion. If she doesn't come around.. dump her
2006-08-28 15:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Elena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friend is jealous and maybe a little immature as well. its never a good idea to remain friends who put restrictions or ultimatums on your friendship. maybe it would be a good idea to let this friendship die down.
2006-08-28 15:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt really sound like a best friend to me.
2006-08-28 15:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Confused4ever1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah. Ask her if you could compromise times. It would most likely help you both out. If she really values your friendship she will do it ^.^
2006-08-28 15:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by Shinigami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is jealous.If she was really your friend she would understand that you can spend time with her and him to.
2006-08-28 15:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? 10? Get off Yahoo Answers!
2006-08-28 15:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Privatize 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to grow up.
2006-08-28 15:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by bad boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what her priorities are and if she would ever compromise them for you.
2006-08-28 15:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋