ok so last year when we were in 8th grade (we've already been friends 4 2 years) i started lking him but when he found out he started ignoring me nd stuff lke in the hallways nd would only tlk 2 me at lunch (we sat at the same lunch table) nd he would always b mean 2 me so i was mean 2 him 2. well, soon tht kinda turned into flirting nd i thought he lked me cause he would always look at me nd tease me nd smile when i tlked 2 him, but when i asked him he said no. then the whole ignoring each other thing happened again nd on the last day of school i thought he would at least say goodbye but i wlked towards him 2 tlk 2 his cousin he quickly wlked away nd left so a few weeks later i tried 2 tlk 2 him bout it online but he blocked me! tht was in june nd 4 a few days ive been having this gut feeling 2 call him but im afriad. i dont want him 2 thnk im stalkin him or anything but i just need 2 tlk 2 him nd i thnk he wants 2 tlk 2 me 2. should i call him or not?
2006-08-28 15:04:55 · 15 answers · asked by mrs.jack sparrow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
forget about him. i mean, a guy has the right to be shy sometimes, but that is bordering on a slap in the face! if he wants to talk to you, then let him come to you. it sounds likey you've been doing a lot of the following and trying to turn it into a more intimate relationship. if he wants it now, you should let him say so. dont go running around him. he's being a jerk. i think you should find someone worth the time and effort. coz all im understanding is that he's scared and or not interested at all.
2006-08-28 15:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by give it to me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if he is doing this stuff to you then he dont like you and being friends was obviously good enough for him. So what you should do is do the same to him or ignore him all together. block him and flirt on someone else. But dont call him. This aint like in da movies where guys are being mean 2 a girl to get her to like him. This is reality. and what I think you should do is go with somebody who is not afraid to say that he likes you and wants to date you. So yeah. if that doesnt work just get a life.
2006-08-28 15:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by jigglet92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's play the ....
Like-Him-a-Lot-Call-Him-or-Not game! First we make two lists. Write down stuff that's been happening.
CALL HIM LIST
1. talks 2 u at lunch
2. smile when u talk
OR NOT LIST
1. ignored u
2. always mean 2 you
3. said no when u asked
4. he walked away
5. blocked you online
The list with the most stuff is the list with the answer to your question.
2006-08-28 15:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by divabylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't call him. Leave him completely alone for a while. You don't need to talk to him. In the meantime, practice getting acquainted with the "a" key on your keyboard.
2006-08-28 15:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. Men like to think they are the "hunters" and you are the "prey". They do not like women to be the "hunters". If he really wants to talk to you, he will call you. If not, leave it alone and move on.
2006-08-28 15:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 you are too young and for seconds get your education instead of worrying about petty little stuff like this.
2006-08-28 15:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by bad boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CALL HIM!!!! Leave him alone! Act like he does not exist and move on!
2006-08-28 15:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him and tell him about your feeling. You can say anything and don't be shy.
2006-08-28 15:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by fiona_rabbit2013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him to talk about you're "love life". just continue being friends with him if its possible. you just have to understand that he doesn't love you.
2006-08-28 15:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by DancingSenorita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't remember kids being this stupid. I sure hope I wasn't'.
2006-08-28 15:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by George S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋