Why, please tell me why are so many women hung up on big boobs?

Question

Really now, do you actually think you are going to snare Mr. Right, the guy to stick with you through thick and thin, the father of your children, with big boobs?

So, are you telling me that the kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with wouldn't give someone the time of day without C cups or better?

Ok legallyblond, your point is well taken. I've posted the question again for men, and my answer to your question would be: (in my opinion) Too many men just don't appreciate real good looks, which involves balance, and proportion. They let others think for them, and they need to grow up beyond the suckling stage of their lives. Overall appearance is where it’s at for me, and a woman’s conversational skills and sense of humor is equally important, because I spend way more time talking to my gf than anything else.
Thanks everybody for your input!
Rich

P.S. Only two guys out of five answered the question for men. I had twenty answer the same question when asked of women.
Looks like leagllyblond was correct.
r

Answer 1

because they are insecure about their bodies.........

Answer 2

How about this question: why are so many men are hung up on women with big boobs?

Maybe you should ask yourself why women feel this way about themselves, when there are men out there that won't even date a woman bigger than a C cup.

If a woman is intelligent, and she is not that well endowed, she will be grateful she doesn't have to worry about the morons who have these kinds of superficial criteria.

Some women are not hung up on their breasts because of men's ideals. It is often because when they look in the mirror, and they don't feel happy with themselves, it affects their self esteem and confidence. It shouldn't, but it does in the same way some men feel insecure about the size of their bits.

Having worked in the cosmetic surgery industry, I can tell you some of the women having breast implants are not doing it to snare Mr Right. Many of them are already in stable relationships with children, they just have never been happy with their breasts and/or breast feeding may have taken a toll on their breasts and they want to feel better about themselves.

So wanting big breasts doesn't always tie in with wanting to snare a man, in fact it is more often the case that it is for their own personal satisfication, as I have witnessed over the years from clients.

HTH : )

Answer 3

The only guys they're going to attract are the pervs. Trust me on this. I was a large C cup at the tender age of 13, (my boobs grew before I did) and some grown men said things to me that no 13 year old should hear. Big boobs are so overrated.

Answer 4

i think its great that youre not one of the piggish men that are hung up on BOOBS. i think (as a 36D) boobs are nothing but a distracting, deforming feature. Sure, they may fill out a dress/shirt better, but why cant people make clothes that dont require miles of cleavage to look good? im sorry to go on and on about this but i have some back problems due to the size of my breasts and it is very sad to think that all these young girls are getting DD's for graduation.

Answer 5

I'm not hung up on big boobs. It just so happens God gave me very large breasts. In fact, because I am 4'8 with DDD breasts, they are almost comically large.

They were not what my husband was attracted to about me. And I know this for sure because we met on a phone chat-line. However, they are certainly a bonus for him, and we both enjoy them. I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

Answer 6

I will tell you if you will tell me the answer to my question. Why are men so hung up on big boobs? Do you guys actually think that just because a girl has big t*ts she is Mrs. Right, and will make a warm and loving mother to your childen?

Answer 7

A lot of guys are really hung up on big boobs. Thus, girls think they need big boobs to get a guy to even look at them. If not that, there is also the fact that everywhere you look: tv, movies, etc., girls see pretty women with big boobs who get lots of attention. It's what society tells them they want to see on women.

Answer 8

well...with my B cups i have noticed so many guys dropping to the floor when they see a big pair in their face...you guys are the ones who make us feel that way....have you ever noticed ...you wont find many guy magazines with small boobies.....if you guys stopped acting like Pam Anderson was a gift from God... Come on....she has more make up than max factor and more plastic than DuPont...but yet she in every guys bathroom and locker... The way men see things are different than women...we see her as a made up fantasy...men see her as a air....I am not hating on her...to each his own...but I use her twins as an example...If there were small breast women in the lime light , then small breast, women could like themselves more....you guys treat boobs like money....the more you have, the better...I personally don't care...i like my perky B's but I feel bad for all those women whom cut themselves just to be noticed

Answer 9

Good point here, Ladies, don't buy into this line of thinking. If you want to attract men worth being around just get and stay in shape.

Answer 10

I have DD's and I wish all the time that mine were smaller. All they do is end up sagging the older you get, and if you get implants, you'll just look deformed when you're an old lady. I think a C cup is the perfect size.

Answer 11

No. It's jsut a competition with other girls. Most girls won't admit this, but we want to look better than the other girls. We know that guys don't really look at the clothes that we wear, we wear them to look better than the other girls. And we want our bodies to look better than other girls, even though guys do look at our bodies. And we also think that most guys want a girl with big boobs jsut because thats the naturaly womanly thing.