This girl really gets on my nervous cause she thinks she's the prettiest girl ever & thinks am jealous of her but no of course not!! But i can't stand her cause she stares at me all the time & she tries to flirt w/ my boyf! DO u think I should fight her or what?...ohh yeah the girl is 23 & has 2 daughters and am only 16 ...what if she beats me up?? Am not scared but I've Never fight w/ anybody & u could imagine but when a get mad I don't care what ****??? So what should I DO?
2006-08-28 14:57:07 · 13 answers · asked by solymar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dang, she sounds awful. Don't let her get to you. Fighting is never the answer and there are many chances you could get laughed at or just look plain bad in front of her, your friends, or your boyfriend. Don't let her get to you. She loves it because you are bugged by her. You're prolly gorgeous too, otherwise she wouldn't do this to you. She's probably just also jealous of something on you. Act like you're too good to even care about this-- like you don't notice her behavior. She'll get mad and bored and eventually stop. No fighting! Good luck, girl!
2006-08-28 15:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by reba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may seem like a good idea, but it's really not going to solve anything. It may actually make things even worse for you and your boyfriend. If she is a parent and 7 years older than you, then that's enough for me to form an opinion that she is pathetic. Don't stoop to her level, just laugh at how stupid she looks and how everyone else is thinking the same thing about her. So what if she flirts with your boyfriend, he's with you, isn't he? Just forget about her, and know that sooner or later, it will all catch up to her and she'll get what she deserves without you even doing anything.
2006-08-28 15:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fight her, shes not worth all the trouble it could cause (physically possibly and you might lose some friends and start some drama you dont want to deal with) my cousin beat a girl up becuase of this and the girl filled assult so FIGHTING IS NOT THE ANSWER. the best thing to do is ignore her. If you know your not jelous of her insecure A$$ then thats all you need. You dont need her opinion becuase you know how you feel. As for your boy...if he flirts back then leave him other wise hes just going to ignore her. the best of luck
2006-08-28 15:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by kelly09620 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you beat her up there would be no winner. I believe it takes a bigger man or women to walk away from a fight. Your 16 so if she did beat you up or even touched you she would go to jail for hitting a minor, but if you jump on her, she can defend herself. Try talking to her in a public place and say this. Listen, I am sorry if I offended you but you make me feel like your flirting with my boy friend and I wish you would stop. Please do not fight that will solve nothing. I hope this helps
2006-08-28 15:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Doug favors universal insurance! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl might be pretty but dont mean your not! **** what she thinks ,she stares at you cause your a pretty young girl with a fine boyfriend and shes an old 23 with 2 kids and has nothing else better to do. fighting her is not the answer but dont let her punck u or nobody else k but if you do fight (**** happens) hit that ***** first k
2006-08-28 15:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your boyfriend is a bit to young for her. She should pick on someone her own AGE! Fighting doesn't do any good.Unless you like being hurt. Keep making comments about her age. That will bother her more than a hitting her will. Try to stay away from her.
2006-08-28 15:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for heaven's sakes... fighting (especially cat fighting) never, ever works!! Put on your heals and short skirt and walk away with your head held high like the woman you are. The boy is not worth your time if he's not there for you 100%...
2006-08-28 15:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath first, then I would suggest to write down all of that frustruation and just read it slowly to your self. If that does not help try some form of counseling, remember anger and violence only leads to more violence and that is not a way to go. Best of Luck!
2006-08-28 15:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to give her what she wants if you don't like her? It's obvious that she' baiting you. You need to gain some maturity and think and act like a lady. Show the world that you're better than her. Better yet, show yourself. By the way...if the boyfriend is all about you, what do you have to worry about?
2006-08-28 15:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzylikethat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fiighting isn't always right and its ways to avoid it . but in your case just make rure you dont give her the feeling that your in any way scare.(even if you are) and if she ever comes up to you with drama and you dont want to fight her tell her your to mature to respond to a childish act. and walk away but if she hits you
1grab her hair
2 pull her to the ground and pound her face in
3.KICK HER A**.
4when your dine let her know she brought her a**whip'in upon her self
good luck.
2006-08-28 15:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋