Its been four months since she broke up with me with for a spike haired guido and I am still not over it. I go to work everyday and every day I'm miserable. I even decided to skip the fall semester for my college since I'm so depressed. I don't go out with friends anymore, I just sleep or listen to sad bastard music. The one person who I loved most and knew most about me and connected with me, left me. I want to end it all, I think about it all the time. I have seen a doctor and they didnt do anything for me. I'm at the end of the road, any advice?
2006-08-28 14:53:47 · 13 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
find another
2006-08-28 15:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by prince 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By guido, do you mean an Italian? If you do that's a racist remark and no wonder she left you. That was uncalled for. Skipping a semester won't help either. Neither will avoiding your friends. And listening to "sad bastard" music just feeds your depression. You seem to be wallowing in it. I have been through the same thing with the love of my life. I know what it is to be devastated. I'm still not over it but, I'm trying. Other people depend on us. Yes, they do! Like it or not. Give them and yourself a chance. Let's do it together. Get on here in a week. I'll be looking for you. Good luck.
2006-08-28 15:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Guido is an Italian Male.
That said, what right do you have to play the racist card? You type like you're a brother. So why are you dissing someone else for colour!?
No wonder your girl left you, if all you are is a whiney bast*rd. Stop feeling sorry for yourself! It is NOT the end of the world. Get your dick out of your *sshole, and go back to school.
And man, if you wanted to end it all, you would have done that already, instead of writing about it here. Four months is more than long enough to be getting to the anger phase of your grieving. So get angry at the b*tch for dumping you, and PROVE that you can make it without her!
The funny part is, that a couple of years down the road, when you meet a girl that is so right for you, that she makes this one look like Michael J. compared to Diana Ross, you'll actually THANK your ex for dumping you.
Take control of your life. Realize a few of those dreams for your future and career. L I V E !!!
2006-08-28 15:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy doing things you enjoy. Start going back out with your friends -- this is not a time for you to be alone. When you are alone, you will only think about your ex. STOP listening to sad music. Sad music will make you feel worst than your present situation.
It has been 4 months - now is time for you to open yourself other to other people and adventures. One day you will look back and thank your ex because your future will bring something better than what you think you have lost.
Keep placing one foot in front of the other and keep yourself busy! Best WISHES!!
2006-08-28 15:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what a Guido is either.
Life is a series of ups and downs. People will come into your life and people will leave. You need to learn how to cope with that.
What, was she the last woman on the face of the earth? If not, you should be looking forward to starting a new relationship with someone else because she has obviously moved on.
2006-08-28 15:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a choice.......sit around in the Pity Party of one that you have created and be miserable, sacrifice your college and other things in life......or, make a decision to move on! It is OVER, pal.........she is GONE!!! No one can do anything for you.....you are on your own to make your own decision how you want the direction of you life to go. Stop whining! There are so many people int he world with life threatening illness and in awful accidents and you are sitting there bitching and moaning because your girl friend dumped !!!! Shame on you!!! If you cannot cope then go take a long walk off a short pier!
2006-08-28 15:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, get out of the house and have some fun with your friends. Sitting at home by yourself, listening to depressing music and wallowing in self-pity isn't going to do a damn thing for you. You need to keep your mind busy so that you have less time to think about her.
2006-08-28 14:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang on, time does heal all and it will get better. Take good care of yourself and keep busy, start to go out with friends again and yes in time you meet someone else. See a therapist if you are feeling depressed, it could help to put things into perspective, it does help to have a place to go to vent your feelings.
2006-08-28 15:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a tough time too. It will never leave you, but it will get better. You are now in a boat that many men have been in, and many more will be in.....only it's been your time for the boat. I would say you gotta go on and consider this experience as something that made you stronger. No pain, no gain. There is a lighthouse eventually. The light gets stronger as you get stronger.
2006-08-28 14:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good lord dont do anything stupid. love hurts bad . but think of the life you have ahead of you and how many other girls you will meet. dont rush things. there is someone out there for you ,,you just havent found them yet. she wasnt deserving of you anyways, start going out with your friends have a good time and keep your mind off of her. the pain will go away in time. soooooo many beautiful ladies out there that would love to be with you....but if you do something stupid over a female i willkick your butt myself!!!!!!!! we have all been hurt before.......BE STRONG!!!!!! DAM IT
2006-08-28 14:59:33 · answer #11 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋