my boyfriend says things aint workin out, wait, let me start from the beggining,his best friend likes me and i kinda like him, well not kinda, i guess... a lot, more than my boyfriend, and my boyfriend noticin', his best friend want him to break up wit me so that he cud go out wit me. so today my boyfriend said that it aint working out cuz it seem like hes getting in the middle ( his best friend) i dont wanna break up wit him, wat do i do!!?
2006-08-28 14:44:34 · 19 answers · asked by Pau 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Woo, not only will you break up with your boyfriend, but you will break up two friends. You have a lot to think about.
2006-09-04 15:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preface: Just a bit of advice.
1. You like your Boyfriend's pal better.
2. Your Boyfriend's pal already asked your BF to break up with you to date you.
3. Your Boyfriend is realistic and knows when to cut bate — you. You are unreliable, not consistent & confused, therefore, not very good long-term relationship material.
4. Since your ex BF's pal is brazen enough to ask someone, who he's supposed to be a loyal friend to, to give him his happiness (you), at your ex BF's expense, don't you think he'll do it again? He's clearly narcississtic and you are working on it, too, if you date this pal.
5. Either way, leave your EX BF alone! He can now stop wasting time, and look for someone worthy of him. He sounds like an intelligent person, who can read people well.
6. Have your fling with pal and enjoy it while it lasts. I guarantee you that you will learn a big lesson with it.
2006-09-05 16:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by mitch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thing about why you dont wanna to break up with him....it seems like you guys dont like each other anymore. If he notices that you and his best friend are getting into each other then it sounds hes kinda cool with it. Plus, you mentioned that you like his best friend a lot more then you bf...so then why dont you want to break up with him??? If I were you, I would have a talk w/ my bf and tell him the truth cause sooner or later it will end up coming out, your feelings about his best friend and how you feel about him.
2006-09-05 09:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is up to you at this point. I think that the decision has already been carefully planned out between the 2 guys and you are just a pawn.
However, for next time, some friendly advice, check out the friends first so you don't make this mistake again. ...because you are probably going to lose both of them at this point.
2006-09-05 16:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are greedy! You like your boy's best friend more? What are you doing with him then? He gives you a way out but you don't want to break up? Why? It might not work out with friend?
Pick who you want more and stay with that person. Do not use your boyfriend as a stand by! Girl, you are a ditzy beeyatch!
2006-09-05 21:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by lipvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive heard of these things b4 and what ends up happening is that after ur with his best friend ull see what a great guy u just let go and his best friend will end up being plain old guy that isnt any greater than your other guy. ANd also if his bestfriend is willing to end up your relationship with your boy friend, can't imagine how he'll be in a relationship with you. i mean he can end up breaking your relationship to be with some other girl. i mean him thinking of doing that to u two just shows his thinking of relationships, do u know what i mean?
2006-09-05 01:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by pharoh of Nature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like his friend too wow I don't think you should choose between them like you could break they're friendship break up with ur bf if you like his friend more but don't go out with his friend thats very bad to do you just cant do that!!it so horriable
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try and not pay attention and spot the good things in ur bf now and spot the bad things in his friend. it will help
2006-08-28 21:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems that you like his bestie alot more than him so.. what the problem staying with him and seeing that you like his bestie is just hurting him breaking up with him is the best thing to do. Than at least you still have him as a friend.
2006-09-05 03:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by j0-j0-- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 in a bed
2006-09-05 04:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok whats the question?? you like his friend but dont want to break up with your boyfriend??? what the hell is wrong with you girls??? pick one and stay with one ,,,not one thats his friend either....arent there such things as real friendships now a days??? cant anyone find thier own man/woman??? pathetic
2006-08-28 21:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋