i cant seam to get over my x even though i am married. no mater what i do i always get reminded of him help what can i do
2006-08-28 14:40:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just think about how you're happy with your current husband, and spending the life together. your ex was wrong for you that's why he was an ex, which is why you didn't marry your ex.
2006-08-28 14:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all have times in our lives where we wonder about past loves.I think before you got married you should have been sure you were over the ex.Its done now, you cant go back to the way you had things with the ex,im sure he has gone on with his life,I know you love your husband or you would not have married him,maybe you need to seek some type of counseling,remember the grass is not always greener on the other side,there had to be problems to have broken up with the ex.Give your husband a chance.Good Luck.
2006-08-29 08:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't know how long you were married and if you had a child together.. did he divorce you?
You never should have gotten remarried if he is still in your system.. No way to get someone out of your mind that you spent lots of time with...
2006-08-28 21:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why think about the past. Your future is all infront of you. Your future is clear and it's all you make out of it.
Set goals and think about tommorrow not the day before.
What happened is over. What tommorrow will be like it's all up to you. Don't look back. Look up and say WOW a new bright day.
2006-08-28 21:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to try your best to live with it and find some way of reconciling with your memories, you need to bury them and not try to keep digging up a corpse--you know what I mean?
maybe you should see a shrink for a few sessions to help you say good bye to this person for good. and you need to try to focus that energy on loving the one your with-- you know the CSN song; 'if you can't be with the one you love, honey, love the one your with'. that person is more deserving of your energy anyway. the other person is dead to you, bury him in the yard and think about the good times every once in a while, put flowers on the grave and say a prayer, but don't try to dig the body up in order to try to be with them again, because they are just not there anymore--and it's kind of gross and disturbing......
2006-08-28 21:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋