there are some people (esp men) that can totally master their emotions. like never smile, be angry or even laugh at the funniest things! how is that possible on someone? it's like they are totally lifeless and so impassive all the time. it amazes me at how can persons achieve that?
2006-08-28 14:36:20 · 4 answers · asked by evanescent_eclipse 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't necessarily consider that something one achieves. I think it's a curse or a coping mechanism from the school of hard knocks. I've dealt with many people like that in my lifetime and it turns out they are not as cold or emotionless as you'd think...they are just guarded. Hardened to the world and bittered from past experiences that life dealt them. In all honesty, I think if they could choose to be different, they would.
2006-08-28 15:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
count style to ten previously reacting and take time to query the place your reaction is going to steer you! Are you constructive or unfavorable and then think of unfavorable finally ends up in destruction the place constructive is advantageous - that's the extra advantageous of the two - I would desire to go with one or the different. each and each has a result good or undesirable. I would desire to go with is what often is the wisest option to make? walking away will in basic terms amplify the project while coping with it effectively will clean up it. you may't seem impassive except you're silent and unresponsive and that doesn't make you something. you at the instant are not no longer something, yet somebody and you're made to have thoughts and thoughts however the nice and comfortable button is the be conscious determination and action. i'd say in case you opted for accountability, attention of others or thoughtfulness, expertise and expertise which incorporate discernment you cant flow incorrect.
2016-12-17 18:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by satornino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't achieve that. I would call you a name for your ignorance but I think it's just that you really need to be informed.
Some people, and it occurs mostly in men, have Autism. They lack the ability to read social cues, is just one of the obstacles they must try to overcome. It's a serious detriment because they can not react properly and suffer many friendships. My son has Aspberger's Syndrome and he struggles with understanding social cues because of it. Please broaden your perspective to understand that not everyone is the same or thinks the same.
thank you for your understanding.
2006-08-28 14:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm sometimes people have had events in their past that have affected them so much that they cant express themselves in which they want or can. Its usally something that they dont have any control over
2006-08-28 15:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shinigami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋