BF and I have been together for almost 3years we have a 11month old little boy. On Saturday he received a text that said. "I'm horny. is little miss perfect there yet." from: Nikkih2. He responded she is right here next to me. So I immediately assume this is a girl named nikki that used to stay with us, she is a girl that has some marital issues and can't stay faithful. Used to be one of hisbestfriends since high school.
I am ask him if he's talked to nikki and he says no. This is when I start to play detective and my mind wanders. He goes to the store and forgets to take his phone so I send her back a message saying come through. Her only reply is I'm in LA. She calls I answer to hear the voice and its that same girl. So now I am upset because not only is he lying but she knows all baout me so there is no excuse. I send her a text acting like my bf saying i'll hit you back my girl just came in. then another that said i'm going to be horny tonight. She responds think of me.
2006-08-28 14:36:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start planning your escape. It's survival time. If you have joint money or bills get you records, make sure he doesn't leave and take the money and leave you with the bills.
Ask him questions but ge prepared first. Ask friends to recommend a lawyer. Photocopy everything. Write notes on whatever you find out and when.
Next time, please wait until after the wedding to get intimate with your new love. You don't want to repeat this. It's not a good situation to be in.
I will pray for you.
God Bless You,
2006-08-28 14:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I hate to say this, it seems to me like something is going on.
Even if he hasn't cheated yet, from what you've seen and discovered, he's at least been presented with the opportunity and he's not really resisting.
The best thing for you to do is to confront him. Find out if he has cheated on you yet, and if he has, leave. If he hasn't, well I would still leave, however you have a son with him. So try to think of what is in the best interest of you and your child.
Don't let a deadbeat like this bring you down, you deserve better.
2006-08-28 21:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all , I would find someway to let this girl know that your boyfriend and you have a son together and to BACK OFF. If you care deeply for this man, then I would confront him, immediately. Let him know that if he chooses to keep in touch with this low life, then he is taking a chance of loosing both his son and you. You should have sent a text message to her and tell her that your not interested and pretend that it is your boyfriend. Tell her that she stinks and doesn't even stand good next to you. Continue to tell her(Pretend that your the boyfriend) that your son means the world to him and she had better back off. Send her a text message and tell the horny snake to get lost. She is trying to break you up.
2006-08-28 22:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most situations, you are usually right if your instincts say something is wrong. I personally would have gone through the roof. Friend or no friend, your man does NOT need to hear about her sexual needs at any time or for any reason. He is your man. You are a saint for not putting speed bumps on his forehead with his phone when the first text came through.
2006-08-28 21:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by longhairchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me your BF is lying.Why would she text him?Not just for the hell of it.
2006-08-28 22:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have a reason but try to get alll your facts absolutly straight b4 anyything drastic......
2006-08-28 21:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by rina jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he's cheating
2006-08-28 21:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋