The Girl is a Hore...Thats all I can say...Like she comes behind me and sees me talkin to him but then when i leave she starts to like play that i still love u game..but my bestfriend who plays football says that he doesn't flirt back or anything..but i don't no...plz..help me out
2006-08-28 14:32:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Young lady, be good to yourself at all times. If your boyfriend is making you feel that you must compete, put him on ice and look to yourself to be happy. Nothing but nothing is as valuable as peace of mind. Please take this advice I'm giving you just like a loving mother. If you simply must try to deal in the situation, here's something tried and true:
Tell your bf to tell the girl to get lost while you are present. Make him elaborate on who you are in his life and his heart, too while you're standing there (or present in some other way that she knows that you are there--threeway phone call, etc.). If he doesn't do this or even acts reluctant--leave him alone because he's a willing participant and you'll be the one hurt/crazy in the end. You are worth the best and never ever forget it.
2006-08-28 14:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by ann a 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some of the ex's really like to cause trouble between her ex and his new girlfriend. Watch closely when she is around. Watch your man too and see how he re-acts. Try to believe your boyfriend and he probably thinks this ex is a real low life , troublemaker. Some girls just love to make other girls jealous. I would go over to her and tell her to save her energy, because her ex boyfriend thinks she is NUTS. Tell her to back off , because she is making an *** out of herself. If you see that your boyfriend flirts back, then it is time for you to become a detective and if your boyfriend still has feelings for this ex, then drop him , like a hot potatoe. But for some reason, I believe your boyfriend. Tell her to grow up.
2006-08-28 14:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's just his ex doing the flirting? I walked up behind my husband and caught him telling a married ex how much he missed her. Tell your man it bothers you and would he leave when the ex starts that or to tell her he's not interested. If he won't, well, what can I say?
2006-08-28 14:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur boyfriend that you dont want him to hang out with her. They broke up right? So there must be a good reason. Just tell him u dont trust her and you dont like her around him. Im sure he will understand. And if anything just speak up and be like hey this is my man now u had ur chance and u blue it so back off. Thats what i would do.
2006-08-28 14:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the main question here is: "Does he still love her?" My best advice is to sit down with him and discuss your feelings instead of hiding it inside. He might spill out what you want to know. If you tell him how you feel, I'm sure he'll understand and will talk try to do something about it. Maybe he'll talk to his ex and she'll stop flirting with him.
2006-08-28 14:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is watch carefully in silence. If you tell him it bothers you, he might take it as you are nagging him about something he can not control, and if he does not flirt back then you obviously have the advantage. As for her, ignore her remarks and don't let her know that it bothers you. She may just be doing it to spite you. Never let them see you sweat. Eventually she will stop.
2006-08-28 14:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by avandachi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Tell your boyfriend that you don't feel comfortable with him talking to her because she's too flirty. Try to convince him that she's still after him, because at first, your boyfriend is going to deny that she's comming on to him. I'm pretty sure your boyfriend knows that she wants him. Guys like the fact that a girl is flirting with them, it makes them feel good. But try talking to him. And if you know he's never going to cheat on you, try not to be in the same room with her. It's just going to get you mad. Try avoid seeing her and just let your boyfriend talk to her. I hope everything goes well.
2006-08-28 14:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Christine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad at her. ( I know that's hard, be sad for her, she sounds like she is REAL bad off). Can you talk to her. Not argue, just talk?
If your boyfriend is at all flirting back, he's the one to be pissed at. How to find that out? Talk to him. If she keeps flirting and playing with him, chances are he's playing and flirting back. Why else would she keep doing it?
2006-08-28 14:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Recreantess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes not flirting back, i wouldnt worry about it, She obviously jealous. I would tell him the fact that she flirts with him, kinda bugs you. Just let him know your aware of it, and you dont like it. But do let him know your not accusing him of flirting. Tell him your not gonna tell him who he can talk to, but it does bug you, and you just hope he can respect your feelings. But if its not him doing the flirting, getting mad at him, is only gonna make things between you and him worse.
2006-08-28 14:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by beachbebe_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't responding back to her then it wouldn't be fair to him to break up.That is exactly what she(the Ho) is trying to get you to do.As hard as it sounds act like all is good and eventually when she can't piss you off she will move on.
2006-08-28 15:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋