This is one of those binary/ either/or things, I mean it'd be great to have both, but for the purposes of this question, you can choose only one option.
2006-08-28 14:30:13 · 26 answers · asked by Buzzard 7 in Education & Reference ➔ Words & Wordplay
Which one would I go for? Both options are hard... I'd like to be with the only one who loved me I guess. I'd be yearning for the only one I loved, but if she didn't want me, the rejection would be awful, and it's good to have someone who likes you around, even if you can't give them everything. That's my choice, but I wonder if it's the popular one?
2006-08-28 14:49:17 · update #1
Thats funny, because I have the exact choice in my life right now......I love someone who doesnt feel exactly the same, and there is someone who is crazy about me, but I dont feel the same........what a screwed up world....but my choice is to be with the one I love since if I was with the one who loved me, I would only be thinking about the one I loved...why torture another human being when I can torture myself?
2006-09-03 12:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by romanov1918 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm this is a difficult question, but I think you have to risk to truly live, I'm single and having fun and while I don't believe that 'there is someone out there for everyone' (how do people explain the people that end up old and alone?) I do believe the old saying, ' a life without love is only half lived. so I choose neither, I'm having fun, so I'll wait, for the one I love who loves me, I don't want to compromise and be unhappy, one way or the other.
sorry if that's not the answer you wanted, but that's the only one I can give.
2006-09-04 06:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the people who have said the one they love haven't put a lot of thought into their answer theres nothing more hurtful and humiliating than loving someone who doesn't give a s*** about you your left with no pride or self respect if i have to choose one it will have to be the one who loves me but in reality if these are the only options the best thing to do is stay by your self
2006-08-29 08:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by keny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only one I love - if I was with the only one who loved me and I didn't feel the same then I reckon they'd become kind of annoying. But, I wouldn't want to be with the only one I love if they had chosen to be with the only one who loved them, so hopefully the only one I love would choose to be with the only one that they love and then we'd both be happy. Ahhhh, how sweet. Orlando, I hope you're reading this...
2006-08-30 07:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie Beee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one
2006-08-31 14:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by pixie007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be with the only one I love because at least then I would be happy, I know that its a selfish thing for me to say, but thats what everyone wants, right? I would feel uncomfortable and guilty if I was with the ones that only love me. You?
2006-08-28 21:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. i kept changing my mind between the two.
Both are just as bad for different reasons.
If you are with the one who loves you and you dont love him back then, you may feel guilt, want to get away and feel pressured. You will start to feel suffocated.
If you are with the one who you love and doesnt love you, that is also bad. You feel jealous if you know he loves another, feel rejection, feel bad about yourself and keep tryin to win his affection, and possibly failin eerytime.
You will feel more pain this way i think. although if you do manage to woo him and succeed then that is great!
I would have to say, I would have to tbe with the one who loves me. He cares about me and would look out for me. I in turn would try and care about him too!!
MAN! hard questoin!
2006-08-28 21:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by marzipanchan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The loved one for the same reasons as K.
2006-08-28 21:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only one who loves you because what if the only you loved did something wrong or something and you dont love them like that anymore when you see that you can be with them...and then to know that somebody who thinks your special in this world loves you and wants you to love them back is better because who knows they might do something sweet to change your mind and in the end you will be with the only one you love
2006-08-28 21:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Tiff Tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm with you, Buzzard - be with the one that loved me.
I'm amazed how many people would choose what I see to be the difficult and painful option!
2006-08-30 09:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by nige_but_dim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋