there is this really annoying freshman who sits next to me in one of my classes (assigned seating). he keeps trying to talk to me and asks me repetitive and stupid questions that are none of his business. he pretends to poke me and then looks away like he didn't do anything. that's how idiotic this guy is. i remember dealing with people like this back in the day, but what can i do about it now that is mature and will work? thanks.
2006-08-28 14:27:50 · 23 answers · asked by hmbn 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The next time he does something stupid, look him dead in the eye and ask him to stop in an even and controlled voice. Don't say please. No smiling, not even a little bit. If he continues, go to whoever is in control of the classroom and ask for a new seat, then explain why you want a new one if asked. That should take care of it.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 14:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you've already told him nicely, to knock it off. If not, do that first. If that doesn't work, you ask the teacher if you can be moved. If he/she asks you why you want to be moved, you say that you're having trouble concentrating due to some distractions. I know you don't want to tell on this person, but if you don't do something, they will distract you to the point where you're missing information you need. I had the same thing happen and I went from an A in the class, to a D because I felt sorry for the guy, because I knew he had no real friends...so I didn't say anything to the teacher.
2006-08-28 14:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try straight forward honesty. Are you trying to get my attention because you're interested in me? If so, let me make it easy, I'm not interested in you and you disrupt my attention time in this class. I only say this because so far you haven't seemed to pick up on the fact that I'm not interested and so I figured this straight forward approach was going to be the only solution. So, if you ever want to get through this class without me screaming at you or having to report you for sexual harrassment, then back off and leave me alone.
You can do this all in a brief few seconds and never raise the level of your voice beyond his hearing. If it doesn't come to a stop,then report him. He needs to grow up. But sometimes they have to be talked to like a grown up to figure it out!
2006-08-28 14:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by dph_40 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. Already tried that? Well here's better advice. Talk to the teacher about it. If he's bothering you so much, then tell him/her what bothers you about him. Maybe they can come up with an idea. Got to live with it? Well then talk to your parents or an older sibling how you feel. That's if its REALLY bothering you. You can ask your parents to talk to your teacher for you too. If that dosen't work, than talk to the freshamn himself. Try to calm him down when he's talking during class. When he annoys you, ignore him, and after class ask him what he wanted to say. You can even ask him if he has any questions or comments for you BEFORE class. Who knows? You might become good friends.
2006-08-28 14:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by kemi0101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would turn to him the next time he does any of this stuff and tell him rather sternly that this ISN'T high school anymore and he needs to grow up. If he'd rather not grow up, that's fine with you, but keep you're stupid, immature, annoying antics to yourself because the very next time that I even so much as THINK that you are bothering me in any possible way, I will go to the professor and ask that my seat be changed because I cannot deal with this idiotic 2-year-old another moment longer! DO..I..MAKE..MYSELF..CLEAR?!
And then do it.
2006-08-28 14:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him to leave you the heck alone or try talking to him alot so the teacher moves you or simply ask the teacher to move you because you feel uneasy next to this freshmen. If she doesn't move you. Simply go to your counselor and tell them to switch classes for you because someone in class with you is pressuring you into smoke or something. Worked for me, but no one really was pressuring me. Plus the counselor didn't ask me who.
2006-08-28 14:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Liliac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 02:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rukidding has the right answer. Give him a ten and take his advice. If the creep contacts you outside of class, get a restraining order.
2006-08-28 14:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by choo-Choos Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask the teacher for a new seat or tell the guy ill tell wish u good luck!
2006-08-28 14:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by model411girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have the hots for you. You should be flattered. But if you just can't stand him just ignore him. But you remember how bad you were when you were a freshie don't you?
2006-08-28 14:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋