Is it too soon to marry someone in three months?

Answer 1

My DH and I met, moved in together, and married all in 5 months. That was 27 years ago.

Answer 2

Marriage is suppose to be a life time commitment , Although I have been married twice. Mainly to two men that used me for a punching bag.
Three months is really not long enough to get to know someone. You should wait a little longer. At the moment you are probably blinded by love. You are not seeing the reality in this person.
On the other hand, if you are willing to give this a go, well do what you think is right. But honestly, you could get hurt.
Good luck

Answer 3

Well, I've been married for 12+ years and continue to learn things about my wife, both good and bad.

3 months seems like it just might not be enough time to make a real solid judgment on whether or not that's the right person. Cramming for a college exam is pretty tough, cramming for a lifelong relationship, might be tougher.

I'd recommend doing your home work, just a little bit longer before the big test!

Show me your report card at the end of the grading period!
Hang in there!

Answer 4

I would say so.
You shouldn't rush to marry someone, it should be lengthy, "get to know you", type of thing... usually takes a year or more.
You shouldn't want to jump right to marriage because "spontaneous & early" marriages in which both partners haven't been boyfriend & girlfriend too long usually end up in divorce.
So, I would say to take your time. This way, you get to know all about your boyfriend, not just what you've learned in 3 months. Wait it out, it'll be worth the wait.

Answer 5

YES!!!!!!!! Take time to know this person you are going to be committed to:
their values, their goals, their dreams,are they on the same page with you in terms of : how many kids you both want, religion you want to bring the kids up, where you both want to live, and a zillion other important stuff. Marriage is not only about physical attraction, and sex but a whole lot more. Its a journey with someone who will be a compatible life partner to you and your kids. Make that journey a life long commitment and a happy one. Good luck!

Answer 6

No it's not!! The amount of time knowing someone don't count, it's the way u all act around eachother and feel for eachother. But, It's a lot u have to know, the little tactics that no one sees til' after the fact, can really get to u. It's all about the love baby!!!

Answer 7

there is no time frame. you may have progressed farther in your relationship in 3 months than some people do in 3 years. with that said, i always think it is better to live with someone for at least 6 months, then you have time to find out and know the others habits, quirks, and idiosyncricies......only......do that if you are strong enough to leave if you find the other person too annoying.

Answer 8

in case you could make an cautioned selection and definitely plan to spend something else of your existence with this individual then certain, this is too quickly. you want to understand the position you're both going formerly you could choose to flow there mutually. In 3 months you've really scratched the floor of who this individual is, their existence aims and values. you do not understand how he or she handles conflicts, boredom, ailment, etc. 3 years per chance; not 3 months.

Answer 9

Definitely!!! You don't know each other well enough to even consider this!! It is a huge step that should NOT be taken lightly. If you don't know each other, haven't had time to get to know each other in a home situation (living together, etc), then you more than likely won't make it and will end up divorced in no time. Take the time to get to know each other in every way possible.

Answer 10

Yes. See where you are in 6 months, then 9 months, then a year.
You might be surprised how much things can change (for the worse) in a few months.