I was bodily in love with a person for six years and travelled as well. We got seperated for some reasons. I am married now for the last 14 years, and have not met the old friend since last 16 years. Now, I want to meet the old friend and revive for pleasure. How do I approach?
2006-08-28 14:14:57 · 15 answers · asked by pianist 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
don,t i have a simular problem with an old girlfriend of thirty years ago.. the problem is worse because she is a friend of my wife, believe, it or not . she has privately made it known she would like to "try it again" , and i,m tempted. but so far i have not had any intimate relations with her, and i,m trying hard not to. at this point i realise that i still have a lot of deep feelings left for her from years ago. i can relate to you very well.and sutch cravings are only natural, but they can be h**l to live with!!! try to not do anything foolish. i,m trying not to too.good luck
2006-08-28 14:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been said that it is a mistake to open Pandora's box. If you are still married why risk so much? It would be better for you if you left it alone. Turn your thoughts instead to the one you're with now. Show him how much you love him with the energy you've obviously put into the thoughts you have of the other person. You'll be surprised at the outcome!
2006-08-28 14:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. Devote your time, love and attention to the guy married to you and with whom you have lived happilly for the last 14 years. Let bygones be bygones. Your boyfriend may not love you now, as he did love you 16 years ago. He may have forgotten you for good.
2006-08-28 14:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by muthreja2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because the single you marry isn't your enemy. i don't believe of that white anybody is an enemy to my race because the single's who're I usually do not dangle with me or search for advice from with me. particular there are white those that detest me because of the colour of my epidermis yet I doubt they're waiting in line to marry or date me. some white human beings have executed undesirable issues to human beings of diverse races and nevertheless do yet there are good white those who desire not something yet love and appreciate for anybody.
2016-12-05 20:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by harth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not that you want to revive the pleasure you just want to close thta part in your like but at the same time you sont wantto do that because you are married dont breack that up ...
2006-08-28 17:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you can ruin your marriage now? you need to be putting that time and energy into your marriage and make what ever is the matter better to make it as wonderful as the relationship you had before
2006-08-28 17:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't...how can you even think about it since you are married? how could you have even been with someone that was married for six years? Do you have a conscience?
2006-08-28 14:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set your spouse free to be loved by someone else mature enough to be faithful.
2006-08-28 14:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by divabylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure this is a good idea If you are both still married?
2006-08-28 14:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by sunnydays 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My saying is still proven correctly I see
"once a cheater always a cheater"
2006-08-28 14:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋