if not why the heck out of no where would she come out & say that when we were just discussing what we'd do on my B-day. i didnt even bring him up? why is she such a biatch?& attacking me? i havent spoken to her since and she hasnt called me either she has been acting shady w/ me?
2006-08-28 14:03:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe shes jealous?!?
2006-08-28 14:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Confused4ever1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your friend you're talking about. Do YOU think she's capable of hitting on your boyfriend, or cheating with him? It's ENTIRELY POSSIBLE that she SAW him flirting with someone else, and wants to let you know without pointing fingers at someone else. If that did happen, she is TRYING to help you. If she cheated with him, she certainly wouldn't tell you that.
It's also possible that he hit on her out of the blue, with no encouragement from her...and she's afraid you'll blame her (like you're thinking about doing), so she's trying to tell you to be aware, without causing a fight between you and her.
2006-08-28 21:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she might have cheated. why don't u do a little asking around im sure someone will kno if they were together or u could ask her about why she attacked u like that and if she did go out with him have her tell u so you dont have to keep wondering
2006-08-28 21:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well somethings going on but it may not be what you think. Maybe she is jealous because your spending time with him and not her or it could be what your thinking the only way to find out is to talk about it and investigate.
2006-08-28 21:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by candylishus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just jealous of him for all the time you are spending with him. If she says bad things about him, maybe you will dump him and start hanging with her again. Just ask her what her problem is with him?
2006-08-28 21:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by MrsMike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at your previous question, shes right. She isn't cheating with him. Call her up and try to be friends again.
2006-08-28 21:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jamps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants you to break up so that she can have him....or maybe she knows something you don't.... or maybe she wants you to break up with hom so that she can have more of your time... whatever the reason is you need to handle your business and look into it... maybe have someone just watch him a little to see if there is anything to worry about....even if you trust him, you can never be too careful...
2006-08-28 21:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gather you didn't both asking her....You should. Guilt could be the problem or she could have seen him out with someone else. Call her and find out.
2006-08-28 21:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..maybe? i dont know. ask her. maybe she knows something you don't.
but it sounds to me like she's jealous. do you spend much more time with him, or do you ditch her to be with him? think about why she would say that. if it's nothing you've done, call and ask her.
2006-08-28 21:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think she cheated with him, but i do think that your friend might be right. call her up, and ask her why she said that. if that came from a true friend, listen to her.
2006-08-28 21:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋