This last week has been really stressful for me and I'm finding it hard to pick myself up. What can I do to make myself happy and get me motivated again??? What do you do when you're feeling down???
2006-08-28 13:56:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Listen to up motivated music - take a walk - do something for yourself - go shopping - talk to your girlfriends (about anything but what is making you down - think positive) ...rent and watch a movie that you remember made you laugh....meanwhile ...here's a ((hug)) from someone who knows down...and how to get back up ...and stay up.
2006-08-28 13:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some loud music and a long mirror will do the trick. put on some loud music that u can just scream all the lyrics to, and stand i front of a mirror and remind yourself that u are hot, sexy, and any guy in the world would want u and if they don't, then they are so stupid and they don't know what they are missing out on. try on all of the sexyest clothes u have and pose, even change your make up 5 million times untill u find the perfict look 4 each outfit. and find the one u like best, get some of your girlfriends together and go out and count the guys who keep looking at u, or if you are married, then dress up for your husband when he comes home, or if it is his day off, then send him some were( ex. to his bro's house to look for some sunglasses u left there *wink, *wink) and when he getts home just fool around with him. if that dosen't keep your mind off of things then i don't know what will, but if you are single then i do not recomend a one night stand.
2006-08-28 14:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by u2crazy4meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i try to surround myself with the people that make me happy when im feeling down, sometimes its good to see our friends to unload our stresses have coffee see a movie do something that might take ur mind of it, sometimes its also good to go to a theme park for the day to lift ur spirits up, laugh carry on like a kid, also i know this is probably not the best answer but treat yourself get a new hair cut or colour, buy some new clothes or perfume that always picks me up.
2006-08-28 14:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by brandy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i'm stressed out i go driving around and turn the music up loud and just dance while driving, i also go shopping, chill out with my best friend, and most of all i think about my boyfriend which makes me feel a whole lot better
2006-08-28 14:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read a book, or maybe I do some soul searching. Sometimes I try to think about what is making me feel so down and I try to fix that, and think about all the positive things, and things that I am proud of about myself and then I talk to those that make me smile. Usually I avoid conversations with my family, its my friends that make me happy. Good luck!
2006-08-28 14:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i turn up some good music and just let it all out dancing around my room or even have a god cry.. then have some good comfort food and watch a great tv show or a fav.movie ALWAYS a comedy they really make me feel better and give me a good laugh.. then i call up a friend or evn talk to my mom if i still feel upset.. its best to share your feelings with sumone it feels like a weight i slifted off your shoulders!
2006-08-28 14:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the gym, have a great workout, condition your hair and moisturize your skin in the sauna, put on a sexy outfit, get your nails done, go to the mall and try some new makeup. Does wonders for me!
2006-08-28 14:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO SHOPPING!!! SHOES DO IT FOR ME, ESPECIALLY SOME REALLY CUTE SEXY HEELS. Then I make plans with some girlfriends to go out to wear them and have a GREAT time. Or I call one of my "friends", have amazing sex and stop for a caramel frapp at Starbucks!!! If it's something really deep and bothersome to my soul, I read my bible and take alone time for myself. Things are different for everyone, maybe you need to get out of your rut before you find what works for you!
2006-08-28 17:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by marie167 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its time for you to relax and get in touch with yourself...go to a peaceful place and think of your happy moments in the past...and if you know how to play guitar then,bring a guitar with you...listening to music is a good way to forget the past week!or if you dont want to be alone,call somebody who can make you laugh and can entertain you!
2006-08-28 14:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by che 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to listen to music, work out, and go shopping. Listening to music really makes you get you mind off of things though.
2006-08-28 13:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by mat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋