IF YOU LOVE FOR 18 YEARS AND 4 KIDS .IF SHE UNFAITHFULLY 4 TIMES BUT YOU STILL LOVE LIKE THE FRIST DAYS TOGETHER AND YOU WOULD LIKE MORE LOVING,CUDDLY,KISS,THE YES LOVE MAKING; SO WHAT WOULD YOU WHEN SHE WORKS 12 HOURS ADAY GETS HOME YOU COOK HER TEA AND RUN BATH FOR HER WILL COFFEE AND SHE 1. SHE GOS TO SLEEP "WITCH OK ' SHE WORK HER ASS OFF"
2: TALE YOU PISSOFF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO DO CUDDLY ,KISSING ,OR MAKE LOVE.
2006-08-28 13:49:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What the hell did you just say? If you can't type well, don't ask the question.
2006-08-28 13:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you need to get a job so that she doesn't have to work 12 hour days and make sure that everything is taken care of in the house and make her feel loved and cared for in a way when she doesn't have to worry about making money to support her kids? Maybe your tea making and bath isn't good enough, maybe making her feel secure and comfortable would be a much better approach
2006-08-28 20:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you are trying your best to be there for her, but you need to feel that she is there for you too. Get a babysitter one night and be alone when she gets home from work. Make tea and something light to eat, then give her a bath and full body massage and let things go from that point.... Make sure you don't have to pick the kids up for a few hours.
2006-08-28 20:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep showing her kindness, love, and a desire to communicate. By the way, she should NOT be working 12 hours a day. That's ridiculous. She will be more chill and able to return your affection if she doesn't work so much! She should be able to rely on you to take care of the finances, provide for her, keep her secure. Good luck.
2006-08-28 20:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatelly you may be on the wrong track... maybe instead of pampering her you should give her the cold shoulder for a while, and go out and see your prospects with other women. That should wake her up better than any tea cups or baths.
2006-08-28 20:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,maybe you'll have to do is support her in every step she takes and show her that no matter what happens you are still there for her...prove to her that you love her!As far as i know,boys are not showy especially when it comes to emotional matters but its time for you to prove that you are really deserving for her but pls.dont make her feel strangle!
2006-08-28 21:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by che 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really nice guy, you deserve so much better than that. It doesn't sound like she values you at all. I would leave her and find someone who will love you as much as you love them
2006-08-28 20:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop the back rubs they're putting her to sleep.if shes been unfaithful 4 times then she has herself a fool
2006-08-28 20:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋