2006-08-28 13:42:53 · 12 answers · asked by Joe M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The same in any Heterosexual relationship(I dont know why you put you were gay...You are just going to get immature losers hating you on here..anyway) But, ask your friends if they notice the same thing..If you feel that hes trying to control you..Tell him, hey, im not your property..If that doesnt work, leave him!
2006-08-28 13:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by pentalityism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who makes the money, I let my man control to some extent, I have to consider where I would be if alone. I sometimes feel used, cuz I do the majority of the housework etc., but I have a new car I can use a new condo to live in . I have it made . So I have to do a lotta the housework etc. , oh well. Nice pay off. Plus he is a super guy. And I enjoy taking care of him.His income is double mine and still I try to pay half of all bills.
2006-09-01 16:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by yourmyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your orientation makes no difference. . .a control freak is a control freak. Try talking to him without sounding judgmental, something like, "I know that you're trying to help me, and I appreciate that. But I need to make my own decisions based on what I think is best for me."
If he's OK with that, no problem. If he gets physically or verbally abusive or starts playing mind games, it's time to get the hell out of Dodge. Get a restraining order against him, and do whatever it takes to protect yourself.
A control freak is dangerous because you never know when he's going to get violent. "Trust your instincts" is my best advice. . .and I think they're already telling you that there's potential trouble ahead.
2006-08-28 20:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfeblayde 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you are gay or heterosexual, no one should try to control anyone. If he/she cannot respect your wishes or opinions, then maybe he/she is not the one for you. Relationships are two way street, not a one way, my way.
2006-08-28 20:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend. Or sit down and have a serious talk with your friend. If they are being controling over you they are not being your friend.
2006-08-28 20:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship.
2006-08-28 21:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the ***! control freaks need to be put in their place.
front him off - either he will learn or you'll need to move on.
2006-08-30 00:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by russianmdl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously?You messed up in the head?Or just too ugly to find a woman?
2006-08-28 20:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Trust issues and insecurity are unattractive. Kick him in the balls if he rags on you.
2006-08-28 20:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This one is easy.....cut your throat............and while i'm thinking about it,..........which by the way. makes me ill.....cut tyour boyfriends throat...I'll give you 100 score
2006-09-01 17:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋