my best friend just broke up with her boyfriend like two weeks ago.
and today she got a new one. i want to be happy for her but this guy just plays girls. i tried to tell her but she seems so happy now. and the guy is a jerk to me and the rest of her friends. what should i do.
thanks
2006-08-28 13:14:20 · 14 answers · asked by beachgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let ur friend know how he's treating u and the rest of her friends if she a true friend she will get rid of him becouse friendship is more important than some guy that is probly with other girls.
2006-08-28 13:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by radins06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would tell her like it is ONCE and then leave it at that.
and then just be her friend. and be there for her when he hurts her. shes gona need a good friend to lean on after he crushes her.and if you pester her about it or even do th e"i told you so" thing she will resent you for it. and wont want to be friends with you. and then how can you help her? once youve told her how you feel she will remeber later that you said it with out you saying i told you so. and she will respect you even more as a friend for warning her but leaving it up to her. and then being there for her to have a shoulder to cry on when its all over.
2006-08-28 20:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by naightengale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is just a rebound guy for your friend. Let her have her relationship even if it is likely a short one. If it ends up lasting longer, maybe there is something...BUT if the relationship is lasting long, but you keep getting complaints from her, tell to end it. Right away.
2006-08-28 20:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Volleyballer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to let her find out for herself. I don't know about you, but it just seems like I've seen alot of shows and movies and stuff where friends try to get involved and then another friend gets mad.
2006-08-28 20:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha girl she found out she get hurt but if you try to tale her his a jerk you will hurt her the our friendship. just be there for her Eg: if hes a jerk and hurts her she going to known her good Friends .let her found out in her our way its sounds bad but it the only way
2006-08-28 20:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by mrtroll16081966 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already told her and she did not listen then just be there for her when he hurts her. And resist the urge to say I told you so no matter how tempting it is.
2006-08-28 20:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep on telling her and show her some proof. And she's the bad friend for not listening to you.
2006-08-28 20:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥gσρρєя♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her alone, if she's happy. Sooner or later, she'll brake up with him too.
2006-08-28 20:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her it. will be easier for her to make a decision "staying with him or not" promise me she wont break up with you
2006-08-28 20:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Bigi Mombasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the move on him and prove it to your friend.
2006-08-28 20:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋