I have a good mix of mates male and female, i have some really good male friends, some are like brothers to me...but im wondering if some are hanging around me because of my job, i model and i think they think i automaticly have other model friends and if they hang around me they will get to either meet them or take me out, some i think like the image, I think the question is are they only interested in me as a friend or otherwise because im a model? also with guys i date or ex boyfriends...some guys seem overly interested in my modeling {its fashion modeling btw} but my ex boyfriend diddnt like the fact i model??? and became quite possesive? after all theres more to me than my job...i do really enjoy my job tho...
2006-08-28 12:54:58 · 20 answers · asked by sexy 2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be careful. Some of them may be hanging out with you just to meet the photographer and steal your clothes when they get the chance.
2006-08-28 12:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Pundit Bandit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey! You know who your good friends are - if you can make the others happy - then you are doing something useful.
They might get to meet the models - but nothing will happen unless the models like them.
A fact is that most relationships involve an element of "use".
2006-08-29 05:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'sexy 2006' believe me, men & women can't be friends, we all think with that thing in are trousers, am not dissin mankind here (hell i'm a red blooded male meself), its in our genes (animal instincts)! Try this situation on for size, you've been out having a drink having a laugh, you came onto one of your "friends" (hypothetical), can you honestly say they would put the friendship above that (very doubtful)!
Never do anything that might make a guy think he's got a green light & the answer is yes to your question & i'll throw the rest in for free!
Hey sexy 2006, wanna be friends lol
2006-08-28 20:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by pauld81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably are hanging around you thinking they are going to get some action. Both male and female are thinking the same. Unless you keep them as just good friends with no interest in action.
2006-08-28 19:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some of them perhaphs...
but then we are all looking for love... !?
As long as they are good friends arent they allowed to be attracted to you?? after all , it is part of being alive attractin, AND rejection... so just be their friends.. and hey if they try t on and you are not interested then tell them... I think it is natural that men like to be around beautiful women... but I would also point out that if you are a *****, then the guys would probably not want to hang with you for long.. so maybe they like you as a person... and think you are hot, and thus like to be around you.. .and yes your hot mates too... but hey baby thats what makes the wolrd go round right? as long as no boundaries are corssed, who cares... as long as you do not feel like you are being used.. right?
And if they hook up with your friends, then thats two of your friends finding somone ?? thats good to right?? and If you think that they hang with you or are only interested in you because you are a model then they may just be very shallow, if so you need to ask yourself are they nice enough people to get to know better, and maybe help them not to be so shallow, or are they really great guys, that just are a little shallow on the outside? there are all sorts... and they could just be sharks... but you should I think judge them on their individual merits....
oh and remeber that the beauty on the outside grows old as do us humans (if we are lucky huh!), and you will not look the same one day... and you will remember this time then.. so make the most of your beauty and intelligence, enjoy yourself for who you are and who you want to be...be proudd..., but remember outside beauty its only skin deep anyway..
take it easy now !!
oh and incidentally, do you hang around with guys that look a certain way ?
2006-08-28 20:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to be seen with nice ladies. They may not think you can give in. You probably have a lot of smart-looking female friends like you. Another reason for liking you is probably to get closed to those too. However, dont be too suspicious of men. They probably just like you for what you are. Do not be more emotional with them than you need to be except if you are falling in love with one of. In that case all I can say is "follow your heart", Honey.
2006-08-28 20:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by charmmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-28 20:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Damo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't know because it depends on how long u have been friends? if it is just like a couple months they could be ur friends becuz they want to meet other models but if they have been ur friends for a year or two they are ur real friends...
2006-08-28 19:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
males do want sex with hot girls... but more importantly, they are on this planet for 3 reasons...
1. to worshop women
2. to protect women
3. to provide for women
The guys that are hanging around you are doing (or hoping to do) one, two, or a little of each of these.
Men can not just be friends with women, period!
2006-08-28 19:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by troyboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well--if you really wanna find out if guys like you for YOU, then just don't brag about being a model.
once you get to know them well enough, then you can mention it.
but duh, if you tell everyone about how you model so much, etc, of course their gunna think your easy...thats the stereotype for models.
and i don't blame your bf for being possesive...he probably just didn't like taht other guys were hanging all over you :)
2006-08-28 19:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋