im thinking about suicide...?

Question

my parents have set me up pretty nice, condo, furniture, car and money all the time and i cant please them. i always end up with crappy jobs and they cut me off. they will not give me anymore money and i have no money to pay my bills and i cant fnd a good job i like. should i take it all the way and end my life, you know get even and die in debt?

Answer 1

Getting even would be to get a job that you not necessarily really like, but maybe can deal with and pay bills back slowly. Really show em that you won't give up...that you're strong,resilient and have a will to survive. Remember bills are an ongoing thing in life. Just try to keep in mind that life's a journey not a destination, it's all about how you live your life. You have the best reasons in the world to be alive, because you are young,healthy & free !!! With that you can do anything. Please just know that you are a very important part of this world and it wouldn't be the same w/o you......your parents love you and so does God,even if it doen't seem like that now...
***If you really feel as if there is no option for you other than to end your life, please call a counselor or friend first....you're worth it !!!!

Answer 2

Damn Chica. Wish I could have had all the advantages you have. You have nothing to whine about. Get off of your @$$ and get a second job or sell the furniture, move some place that YOU can afford to pay for and quit living on someone else's dollar. If you do that, you don't have to worry about pleasing them. Take your life and make it your own. Until you do, expect your parents to be critical of your every move. As far as the suicide BS, only selfish, self centered people go that way. Achieves nothing. Think about it. How will you even know if you got your point across if your dead? As far as getting even, best way to do that is to get on your own two feet and get out from under the control of your parents. Be an adult and earn the respect you want from them by making it IN SPITE of them and their control.

Answer 3

Listen. No one has any reason to take their own life. No matter what's going on in your life, it can be fixed. If you take your life there's no coming back. You should never even mention the word "suicide". It is the worst way to solve your problems. Talk to your parents maybe yal could work something out and they could help you with your bills or you could get a loan and pay it back little by little. Who cares what kind of job you have as long as you try to make a living, everyone's not perfect, so just try your best.!

Answer 4

Well honey, its not the end of the world, you know. Snap out of it. Do you think its the right thing to do, when YOU ARE WORTH LIVING FOR. You may have been spoilt by your parents because they have done almost everything for you and so i guess that is why it is difficult to be independent because you have relied on them for years and years. But you know, I have faith in you and I know that you can do it. Come on when u go to the wash room, do you get your parents to take you there..nope off course not, that is your decision, and you do it independently, it all depends on you. You can and should be able to do anything and get any job you want by your strong will power. You must be determined to do it and get it done. Therefore, it all comes down to planning or setting goals in life. DO IT, set a goal..work towards it and I am 100% sure..you will get what you're looking for. Talk to a friend, a relative whom you can trust to help you out..to keep you focused but you are making the decisions and committment and by talking to this person, he or she will be able to motivate you into accomplishing your goals. TRY IT OUT..YOU ARE WORTH LIVING>>DONT U FORGET THAT!!!

Answer 5

DON'T DO IT.

Life is a precious thing, and I have no idea why anyone would want to take their own life away.

There are plenty of other people in the same boat as you, and you should get help SOON. There are lots of people out there who can help you stop from having thoughts like this. Once you get help, you'll be happy you did.

Answer 6

I don't think you should talk to random people on the internet about that and I'm sure you already know what most people will say to this. Maybe take it to a professional level? My p.o.v, suicide never solves anything, no matter how many people you think you're getting even with. Make the situation better, don't run away from it.

Answer 7

OK, here is the thing. Get even with who? Seriously, how will you get even by being dead? They probably have an insurance policy on you and if you die they will get even more money. How is that getting even? I'm just saying maybe they really don't care if you die! It is a possibility you know! think about it.

Answer 8

Don't do it. Now it's your time. It's okay to get a small job and work up. Start standing up for yourself and show them you can do it on your own. Share a place with someone. Get rid of some stuff you don,t need. Sell it and payoff bills.

Answer 9

That's no reason to think about killing yourself. Think about it, you still have a chance to change your life if you end it that's it. Even if you're flat broke and homeless there's people out there that can help you. Take care of yourself and know that God has a purpose for everybody.

Answer 10

no!!!! i almost did that to. but i hung in there & i found a great job & a wonderful wife with childern. this should tell you that everything dosent just come to you when you wont it to. like now!!! you have to wait for it. it sounds like your parents has spoiled you. then cut you off in that way is not good for you to learn anything. so keep in there & it will come to you just be patient & dont give up. i didnt & im very happy that i did.