He keeps calling me his "Girl" and when people ask him if we're still together he says "Yes." He makes me mad and hasnt been on the same page with me for the past 4 months, he hugs,kisses, and tells me he "loves" me. All we do now is get in fights and he's the one that starts them. (physically) He doenst hit me or anything, i'm the one who does that (very good hits by the way)...
I dont know what to do, there are many guys that like me and want to go out with me but he scares them away... What do i do?
2006-08-28 12:32:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He keeps calling me his "Girl" and when people ask him if we're still together he says "Yes." He makes me mad and hasnt been on the same page with me for the past 4 months, he hugs,kisses, and tells me he "loves" me. All we do now is get in fights and he's the one that starts them. (physically) He doenst hit me or anything, i'm the one who does that (very good hits by the way)...
I dont know what to do, there are many guys that like me and want to go out with me but he scares them away...
When i dont answer his calls, he calls my brother, when my borther doesnt answer, he calls my mom and if she doenst answer he calls my house. He ran away from home to be with me. He says he loves me and all this bullshit, but he's hurt me in the saddest way, and that being said, i dont know if anyone has went through wat i've went through. He broke up with me in april and wants me back, hell no i'm not going back to him
What do i do?
2006-08-28 12:40:41 · update #1
if you are "hitting" your partner, you're too young to be in a relationship.
tell him it's OVER and to stop thinking it's NOT- don't encourage it by arguing- just STOP communicating...
now go outside and ride your bike!
2006-08-28 12:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit him down and give him the straight dope. Tell him you don't like what he's doing and you want him to stop.
But for God's sake, don't hit him. He'll think it's funny or worse, hit you back.
You must be firm and clear with him. Relationship over! Move on! Leave me alone!!
If he still bothers you tell your parents, his parents, a teacher, a friend or the cops of you have to.
2006-08-28 19:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if you are hitting him physically YOU are the one that has a problem....
If you are the abuser and he still claims to love you then Hes the one that is blindly in love with you .. Hes really blind
but i ll tell you this.. Get AWAY FROM HIM and go with those other guys .. that will certaintly put you in place
STOP hitting a guy that is worth it.
because is for BEaches like you that Decent girls like us.. get the JERKS!!!!
GROW UP for gods sake .. get HELP!
2006-08-28 19:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were together at one time, did you meet his parents? If so - why not go to them or - have your parents call his parents and talk to them. Tell your parents what is happening.
Stop hitting him! That is nothing but terrible! Go to his parents and ask them to help in the situation.
2006-08-28 19:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling him to leave you alone?
Don't lead him on.
If he persists after you've been direct with him, try not answering his calls, or being where he hangs out. Avoid him as best you can. He should get the hint.
If he doesn't get the hint even then, man....good luck with that
2006-08-28 19:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by CrashCondon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one have you tried the yell in public speach on we are not together any more leave me alon? it some times works and others have to be more complicated but I think it the only answer I can think of,
2006-08-28 19:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, stop hitting him. That's not the answer and just tell him it's over.
2006-08-28 19:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Trinity♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and talk and tell him that its over and it time to move on but no hit him just talk and tell him u dont feel the same about him anymore.
2006-08-28 19:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it clear you want to end it, if you give him mixed messages he will continue with this, if this is getting to you and it sound's as if it is, make it clear, "we cant go on like this, I don't want to keep fighting you, but I need to be single and on my own for a bit.."
you need to make a clear stand, delete his number and put a stop to any relationship with him.. You physical anger at him, is because you are restless and angry at your self.. you don't sound happy with him or your self.. it sound's as if it's time to move on?
2006-08-28 19:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by dianafpacker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm with him, firm and gentle, and tell him it's over and that he's to start acting like it's over immediately.
That means no more "Girl," kissing, hugging, or "I love you."
2006-08-28 19:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋