When someone repeatedly takes advantage, causes arguments and just disrupts life around them in general... how far do you let it go before taking steps to protect yourself? What do you do about it?
We're talking adults here, not children.
2006-08-28 12:26:16 · 8 answers · asked by toastposties 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have a sis that was in the life of drug and bad decisions for yrs i had to set guid lines i told her i loved her i would all ways go get her from danger and i would always feed her and if she wasnt messed up she could stay here but no money no friend of hers were allowed it took a lot of trouble but now she is doing great she is finally the lil sis i new she could b but if she was a friend i would cut her off fast only 4 fly would i be there that much
2006-08-28 12:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one maybe gettin some help maybe its somethin wrong and thats why maybe they can help if not and is in trouble w/ law see if theres steps to stop all of this some times tuff love is better I know everyone is against now but thats the reason most have gotten this way good luck hope you can get some kind of help to stop this.
2006-08-28 12:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just plainly let them know that if they want to act like children they can do it without you but you'll be around and still love them when they decide to grow up!!!!
I know i have a daugther that hasn't talked to me for three years now!!!!
2006-08-28 12:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by littlejiffypopmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a tough question. Unfortunately we don't know your situation. Just keep in mind that if this person is constantly causing problems, maybe you should just look out for yourself.
2006-08-28 12:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that the moves or behaviors are legal, i imagine that what's ideal and what's unacceptable differs counting on the guy...there is not an glaring it truly is sweet and it truly is faulty line...what you may settle for received't be ideal to others...and the action that you're feeling is unacceptable ought to nicely be completely fantastic for others.... So, i imagine that's as a lot as you...for your beliefs and for your concepts about what you ought to settle for as a classic area of human beings...and what you received't settle for and word as something you won't be able to stay with... the answer for your question lies interior of you...your beliefs and your own opportunities aspect out what you may or can't take... (yet i also imagine that when you're in love, you provide too a lot leeway...no matter if you before theory that such habit changed into unacceptable)
2016-11-28 03:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid them as much as possible... you know how they are.. if something is stirring up get out of the way...
2006-08-28 12:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that makes you feel bad.........that should be the line. Tell them off.
2006-08-29 01:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would confront them the first time they did it. if they did it again, i would cut all ties with them. i would rather spend my time with people who treat me right.
^_^
2006-08-28 12:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋