Both him and I are high school sophomores and I've know him for a couple of years, he never acts gay or does anything gay, but once I went swimming too his house and both of us went skinny dipping. I didnt really think anything of it until he jumped on me and we were both naked, he rode me around for a while and i didnt really mind. After that we both took a shower and thats it. he has a girlfriend who he always smooches and hug really tightly.
2006-08-28 12:24:28 · 23 answers · asked by Mike3st 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He always talks about his emotions and hes never shy to be naked and rub on me.
2006-08-28 12:31:05 · update #1
There one thing that freaked me out when he slid down my back and his crotch was right in between my but cheeks and than i jumped backwards into the pool with him still on me.
2006-08-28 12:51:41 · update #2
I think that your friend is either:
1) a very emotionally well adjusted heterosexual
OR
2) a very emotionally well adjusted homosexual.
Either way, be happy that your friend seems to be normal and emotionally healthy. Trust me, you could have a lot more severe problems.
2006-08-28 12:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I want to share a story with you. I knew a 8 year old a year ago that was always humping on all his friends that were boys. Of course they called him a fa**ot, suggested he was gay. The little boy did not know what gay meant yet. I asked him why he was doing this and he told us he saw his dad do this to other guys, and when he does this it made him feel good. So here we have a child that was influenced by what he saw, does not know it is not a acceptable practice and he had formed a liking to this now.
We explained it was not the proper act to do, and he told us he would not do this again, and yes my friend told his mother.
I moved away so i do not know what happen to the boy. Yet here we have a boy that is older but likes to rub up against males and takes it a step further by undressing as well. He may see this now as a pleasure and nothing more. Most likely he will end up bi sexual if he is not already.
You could say the next time he is over and wants to swim in the nude that you are not allowed to do this again, that you feel it is inappropriate. If he rubs up against you, you also could say to him you feel it is inappropriate for him to do this to you, that you feel uncomfortable. This should not offend him and set boundaries with him. It is OK for you to set boundaries, even if you have done or been involved with the suspicious behavior before.
2006-08-28 17:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that if nothing has happened in the two years you've known each then I would have to vote "no" on him being gay. There are some guys and girls alike that are very comfortable being out of their clothes and around people who are dressed. If this is uncomfortable for you then say something to him. I will presume that the "riding around" was like a piggy back ride and if there was any moment an opportunity was available it would have been then. I would suggest a self check first on where your head is at, then ask your friend. You may not like the answer you get, but if you don't ask you won't know. If you two are good friends then talking about this should have no ill effects on your relationship. If it is not that important to you, then say nothing. But, it will eat you up inside if you don't. Game ball is in your court.
2006-08-28 12:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by notoutyet72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't make a real move on you while naked then I would say probably not. Many guys are wild and comfortable being naked around other guys and having physical contact especially if they are in sports. Don't start freaking out until he tries to kiss you or rubs your....
2006-08-28 13:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by NY Lesbian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would hazard a guess and say he's bisexual and wants you, and also have a girlfriend as a backup, in case you shout "F**got" or Po***er. did he have a hardon when he was on your back? maybe he was looking for the hole in your butt, if none of the above maybe he's just a free guy who has no inhibitions. Does he do all these things with his girl friends. Just be careful, if you do anything first, he may very well yell F**got or Po***er and then your in the sh*t.
2006-08-28 20:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys get silly when they are playing and naked. Sounds like just some silly playfulness to me. No big deal.
Read what Dani-kin above said. She's right on.
2006-08-28 15:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, when's the next pool party?
j/k
Look! Body parts are body parts, and that's that.
I liked the "well adjusted" answer above. Looks like you guys get along just great.
Don't worry about it.
2006-08-28 13:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by My Big Bear Ron 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he'sjust a hyper active friend. Don't look too much into it unless he makes moves on you. Then you know he's gay.
2006-08-28 16:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "acting" gay. Gay people do not act..we are just like you..believe it or not.
How do you act str8?
I think you are the one who is attracted to him, and you want to know if there's any possibility
that he might be gay before you hit on him.
2006-08-28 12:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by GoldnHart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just horsing around. Not gay. You might take a look at yourself though, maybe you were hoping?
2006-08-28 14:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by college student 1986 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋