i started my relationship 8 months ago, he knows my parents but i dont know his parents. I wanna meet them; how can i do to make my boy introduce me to them?
2006-08-28 12:20:56 · 18 answers · asked by Dra. Mejía 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Can't make anyone do something that they don't want to do. Perhaps he's embarrassed by how he thinks his parents might act. Or perhaps he's not sure that you'll accept them and/or their lifestyle. Best way of finding out what is going on in his head is to be upfront and ask "Why" he won't introduce you to his people. Good luck.
2006-08-28 12:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL you say your b/f knows your parents BUT you didnt say if he allready knew them or you introduced him to them, SO if he allready knew them ok, if you introduced him. then why dosent he let you meet his family,
1, HE may not be as deep in the relationship as you are,
2, HE may think they are not as good as your family.
3, HE may think his family will take the rip out of him for bringing a girl home,
BUT only HE knows the true reason. wait until you have been to your parents then just say "hey when am i going to meet your parents" then let him explain, i think parents of a girl like to see who their daughter is with so they know they are safe, boys dont tend to take girls to meet their parents they seem more reserved, but hopefully he will put your mind at rest, good luck,
2006-08-28 19:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As mentioned by the others just express your interest. But don't try to con or fool him into doing it. Let it happen naturally. As long as he knows your feelings. If it doesn't happen there is more underlying things probable going on. Like the guy haves some sort of family issue, might not be as serious in the relationship as you or just might have issues with the relationship in general that he's not talking about.
2006-08-28 19:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite simple my dear.You say to him"Darling I have introduced you to my parents,how's about you introducing me to your parents ,because I would dearly love to meet them ?"
2006-08-28 19:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by livingstone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either hiding something or he is embarrassed or he is not really serious or he does not have a relationship with his parents.. You need to find out which is it... good luck
2006-08-28 19:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him one day: "Hey. I would like to meet your parents. How are they? Can I visit them this Saturday?" or something along those lines. Be straightforward.
2006-08-28 19:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Crescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him youd like to meet his parents, maybe you can go over for dinner....if he doesnt want you to, its a red flag....there's a reason but dont push it....the holidays are not far and he cant keep you away from them too long unless there's dirt he doesnt want to uncover. good luck.
2006-08-28 19:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange a dinner for yours and his parents to meet
2006-08-28 19:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" him do anything he's not ready to do... If you've dropped hints, and he's still hasn't done anything, perhaps he just doesn't feel that this relationship is serious enough.
2006-08-28 19:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they live near by try arranging a dinner date with the two of you and his parents.
2006-08-28 19:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Bridget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋