okay so i just moved and i had to leave my b/f and i loved him soooooo much!!!!! and theres only a couple cute guys in my grade!!! but i dont want to like any of them or think i should like any because i still have feelings for my old b/f!!!!!! plz help!!!!!
thank you for all your help!!!!!!!
2006-08-28 12:15:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay dear, i kind of had the same problem at one point in time. Try to get to know the new ones--at least as good friends. Try to also call your bf who is away every week to catch up on things but not every day cause that is kind of a turn off. try to act busy, but always tell him it would be better if he was there too. Also try to plan a visit to see him soon to rekindle your love for him. A movie, or anything you guys share interest in. GOOD LUCK GIRL!
2006-08-28 12:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember those days... It depends on how far you moved. Long distance relationships can be hard to maintain. Plus if your still in school you may meat another guy who you like more! I am 25 years old and I am separated from the man I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. Things change soooo quickly sweetie!!! I am sure there will be many other times you feel this way, I know it hurts at the time believe me, but I promise it will all work out in the end. Good luck to you!!!
2006-08-28 12:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by Neffie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? i know it seems hard because no matter what our age is we depend a lot on our feelings, but make sure to do 2 things- be true to your old bf. if you are going to continue a relationship with him you want to be honest- even if honesty means separating for a while. You are still young if you are in school and it is very difficult to keep up a long distance relationship when you are an adult and run your own schedule. Also remember, you may not want to stick with your old bf you are young and you may not want to close your options down by getting too serious with one guy right now, have lots of friends that you talk to and put your school first, some day you will be glad you did!
2006-08-28 12:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by psalms912b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. what can i tell you ?.. I think it is completly normal to look around and those "wondering eyes" are always going to do what they like to do .. look around. Now, you say you love your boyfriend and its times like this that you miss him the most. For it is his touch that you miss it is his running hands on your body that you miss.. his kisses his presence. The reason why you are looking around so much it is because of the same reason you miss him. And it is just a certain type of void that you want to fill when you look around ... but I tell you this it is not going to be worth it at all... because lets say you might have sex with one of the guys you checked out but it is more likely that hes not going to be the same as your boyfriend the loving style will not be the same. If you LOVe your boyfriend so much you should use that "urge" that you feel to reflect on him and the way he is with you to remember those times you guys have so much fun together and to reflect on what is it that makes you want more of him each time even more. NO HOT guy can ever BE THE SAME... that way using that "urge" in your favor will keep that flame of passion always on until you see your boyfriend again and then you can do whatever you wanted to do to him ... since the 1st day you miss him. Enjoy LOve dont be carried by temptation :)
much love and peace out
take much care
2006-08-28 12:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK- So how far did you move? Anything more than 10 miles and find a new b/f. Stay in touch with you b/f. But don't be surprised if it comes to an end. Distance is one thing that no one can change.
2006-08-28 12:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young to be having all this boy trouble. just because you moved ,doesnt mean your feelings move. if you plan to move on then get over your previous boyfriend first then look into new prospects. I dont understand why it is so necessary for young girls to be worried about dating and always having a boyfriend stick your head in the books seriously and worry about the boys later!
2006-08-28 12:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by purpleartof5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like the other people said, wait untill you get over our old boyfriend, if you love your old boyfriend then don't think about the other guys.
2006-08-28 12:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by |katt| 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um what kind of help are you asking for? You moved away, so what else is there for you to do. Either you two keep a long distance relationship or break up. Easy huh.....
2006-08-28 12:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can be overall performance stress...Or it must be that he has erectile sickness. Ask him to paintings with you and handbook you getting him to peaking. Is he in a position to achieve height by masturbation? you ought to favor to ask him some questions about this... If he has issues, then he ought to favor to bypass to a clinical professional to get appeared at. this can be the rationalization he hasn't performed something sexual, yet. in basic terms sit down and confer with him.
2016-11-28 03:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its when ever ur ready...dont force urself to like a new guy..but also theres nothin wrong wit movin on...so if u find a guy dat rocks ur boat dan sail on ;)
2006-08-28 12:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋