I'm VERY SECURE and think it's Perfectly natural for my husband of 12 years to have a boys night out whether it's to da club, strip club or to see carz race. Whatever the case may be I trust him and alot of his homie wivez HATE me cuz of it, what do you think.
2006-08-28 12:07:10 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Shortie♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is probably why you have been married for 12 yrs...you are a confident, trusting & secure woman. I have been married 10 yrs. and it is perfectly fine either one of us to take time to ourselves. If we can't trust our mate, who in this world can we trust? I say don't worry about what the others wives are saying, it is their personal insecurity not yours.
2006-08-28 12:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help the way other ppl feel about the way you handle your marriage. If it works for you guys and you trust him than thats all that matters. Misery loves company and it sounds as though they cant trust their men. With the divorce rate so high in this country, if you find something that works for you in your marriage..then stick with it. Dont second guess what you do with your husband over jealousy or disapproval from outsiders. Remember who your married to.
2006-08-28 19:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married, but he does need a boyz night out. If the other wives hate you for that then that's their problem and he deserves it just like you deserve it sometimes. I have a boyfriend and I love my time with my friends sometime to get away from it all. Sometims you just need that freedom.
2006-08-28 19:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by dkelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your acceptance of the fact that we all need our time appart or what ever you my want to call it shows that you can have a healthy relationship with your husband. It shows that you can both have lives. this is not a bad thing its a very good thing. men with out that oppertunity are more likely to hide things from their wives, and be unfaithful. they seek what they may think they are missing and the same goes for women. So nothing is wrong with your approach to your relationship.
2006-08-28 19:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by candylishus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to have a poker night, but not a clubbin, strip clubbing. Tell him to stay at home and act like a husband.
2006-08-28 19:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, But i think sometimes it should be like a football game at someones house. Plus you can have a girls night out sometimes. So he is not getting all the fun and going out all the time.
2006-08-28 19:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by lblondie15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell your husbands wives, that you are secure, in your relationship, once you take care of your business, you have nothing to worry about. It is good for you both to have a night out.
2006-08-28 19:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, maybe not about the stripclub. But I definitely think it's important for men and women to have friends to be with and talk to on a regular basis. It doesn't mean they should go out all the time, but it is good for all relationships involved.
2006-08-28 19:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are too trusting. Married men should not have "boyz night out" because he is no longer a boy.
2006-08-29 08:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's fine.
Please -- for the love of God -- learn to use the "s" key instead of the "z" key. And it's "the" and not "da." What works in lyrics doesn't work in a paragraph of text.
You obviously know how to spell -- why is it that you choose not to?
Does this bug anyone else?
2006-08-28 19:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Andy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋