she wants me to keep sexually relation with her...
2006-08-28 11:52:57 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her no and walk away. This works for men, just like it does for women. You deserve someone better than that. I know this going to come across as sounding mean, but honestly, if you meant anything to her she wouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Instead, she'd be with you.
I've been there and done that...RUN don't walk...and DON'T LOOK BACK!
2006-08-28 11:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with still being a friend, but a relationship? Just depends on what she means by a relationship. I know my last girlfriend and I had a specail relationship and things didn't work out. Now I'm married to another lady I met over the net but we still e-mail each other and stay in contact. I'm sure one of these days we will see each other again and a hug will be proper and maybe a kiss on the cheek but nothing more than that will happen. I just notice you said "sexual relationship" and that is a BIG "NO WAY!" Unless you want to head to the big "D" and I don't mean Dallas. Just be honest and don't keep nothing from your wife. She is now your Queen, you treat her as Jesus did His church, she is a gift from God. Take care and have a Blessed Day!
2006-08-28 12:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Matt T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for the hills!!!
No, really. She's being selfish. She wants to have her cake and screw it too. If she just got married then, it's because that's where her cheating, cheap heart led her to. She's not going to suddenly break up the marriage and run away with you. And even if she did, would you want to be with her, knowing that she is like that? If she's doing it to her husband, then she'll do it to anyone else too.
And if all you're really interested in is the sex, then even so I think you should tell her no. Karma is a b****, and it always comes around to bite you in the behind. And not only that, but it seems to me that it would make it hard for you to move on with life if you are still seeing her so intimately. Leave and find yourself someone who is worth your time.
2006-08-28 12:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bad idea my man. You know why, how would you feel if your wife is keeping a sexual relationship with an EX. I guess very bad.
She was ur gf, but no more, the best you could do is stay as far away as you possibly can, it is an invitation to disaster or murder.
My opinion, run as far as ur legs can carry you from her.
I guess she doesn't want you to get married someday, however, think about the first statement I made and you'll see its not the best of ideas.
2006-08-28 12:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by CPR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I see so she wants you to be her boy toy and be at her beck and call to f**k her when ever she cant get it from her husband what was the freaking point of her getting married then she really has her d*mn nerves she wants you to play second best to her husband oh no tell her to find her another toy cause you're not with that unless she plans to pay you and I dont mean just S E X.
2006-08-28 12:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this: would you want her to sleep with someone else if you married her? I would tell her thanks...but, NO thanks. Sounds like whoever married her needs a prayer said for him. You should feel lucky someone else has the problem...meaning her! Why would you want to sleep with her...after all...think about this..you are not only sleeping with her...you are sleeping with her husband also........and whoever else she is sleeping with. Don't think that you and her husband are the only two...I am sure she has more or will have more lined up.
2006-08-28 11:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by tater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is married, she took a vow to be faithful to her husband. Stay the h*ll away from her. You lost her so live with it. If she cared so much for you she should not have married someone else.
2006-08-28 11:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR girlfriend married someone else, and yet you are actually considering what she asks as an option. Tell her to go to hell, in no uncertain terms. Have a little pride dude
2006-08-28 11:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to curb mate - you have to have a life as well - you shouldn't be on speed dial whenever she wants you. It ain't fair to you... And also what happens if you find someone else... What would you do?
Best thing in the long run is to leave her and start thinking about yourself...
2006-08-28 12:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by skips1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! i cant say that enough! the chances are if she cheats... her husband will find out and beat the crap out of you. dont do it. PLEASE! i've been cheated on before... it hurts. and btw... shes warning you that shes goping to cheat on her husband... ok i'm sorry if i ruin a life here but tell the guy to watch his back by casually saying " hey you better watch it with her..." dont go right onto it and say " shes gonna cheat!" you could ruin a perfect realtionship!
2006-08-28 11:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋