harass me ALOT. i mean, they're all basically 8th graders[i'm in 7th grade]and some of them blow whistles at me, and two guys that people consider "hot'[which i do NOT get]always stares at me...
grr...
what should i do?
and also, there's this one guy that stares at me alot, and i think he reall does like me, and i like him back...
and on sunday, he and this other guy, they were standing in the hallway[because me and some of my friends were]and i really do think he was staring at me...
what do i do with these two problems???
2006-08-28 11:42:55 · 18 answers · asked by sk8tbrdswdtw 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
some people are jsut plain rude. i had the same problem and it went away. you just have to understand it takes boys little longer to mature then girls. No offense to any guys reading this but it is a fact. And if you really like this other guy make it obvious! flirt with him and stuff! if he gets your signal then he'll take his que and ask you out! good luck! and hang in there! it will def. get better
2006-08-28 11:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by ice hcky rulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to pay too much attention to the stares...-The idiots are going to do it anyway, and sooner or later they'll get tired of it & go off & bother someone else. As for the guy you LIKE staring at you, wait until the next time you see him ALONE- & then go up to him & say, "Hi, I'm..." -& introduce yourself to him-& see where it goes... ... Remember, guys (AND girls!) don't always act like themselves when they're with their friends. So if you REALLY want to get to meet someone- do it one on one. I know it's nerve racking, but it's usually the best way to do it. Good luck! :)
2006-08-28 18:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are not problems, honey. The guys don't know what else to do and you're self-conscious about growing up. Just relax and smile and "fake" self-confidence if you must. The more self-confident you are, the more people you will draw to yourself. Act like none of it bothers you and let it roll off of you like water on a duck! You'll save yourself alot of grief. If a guy likes you, he will tell you when he knows you're relaxed enough to hear it. Godblessya, honey!
2006-08-28 18:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I HAD SIMILAR PROBLEMS AS A TEENAGER. i WAS HARASSED A LOT BY GUYS IN JUNIOR HIGH BECAUSE i WAS "BUILT MORE MATURE" THAN GIRLS MY AGE ..i REMEMBER GETTING GRABBED AND ALL SORTS OF TOTALLY MESSED UP BEHAVIOR. wHAT IS SO SAD IS THAT NO ONE EVER TALKS ABOUT THIS. iT IS SO TABOO IN SCHOOL SYSTEMS. i WANT YOU TO BE A STRONG WOMAN AND TELL THESE GUYS TO GO TO HELL.bOYS AT THIS AGE ARE REALLY IMMATURE AND THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT THAT IS NOT THE WAY YOU TREAT A GIRL . iT IS TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL. IF THEY ARE MAKING YOU UNCOMFORTABLE AND YOU DON'T LIKE IT DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT PLEASE. i WISH i WOULD HAVE. iT IS WRONG AND i THINK THAT IF YOU DON'T SAY SOMETHING TO THEM THEY WILL JUST KEEP DOING IT. tHEY WILL THINK IT IS ALWAYS OKAY TO TREAT WOMEN LIKE THIS. OR TELL SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST MAYBE THEY CAN THINK OF A BETTER SOLUTION. oLDER BROTHER OR SISTER? i KNOW IT IS HARD BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT PEOPLE TO HATE YOU BUT IT IS WRONG AND i HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND THAT.
2006-08-28 18:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about your 8th graders friend don't listen to them just try extra
hard and about the boy why dont you talk to him so if he likes u maybe he can tell u .
2006-08-28 18:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know y boys are staring at u but if u are alloud to go out with people go ahead and date this person that u speak so fondly of
2006-08-28 18:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi to the guy you like. and tell the others in your dreams LOL. or dress differently.
2006-08-28 18:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by diamondblue382000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them.. thats the best weapon to use against them
they are doing it for the attention,,, so dont give it to them!
and if he really does like you.. let him show it, you dont need to be the one tying the knots.
If you like them.. then i guess your doing something right..
but it doesent matter what they think, its what you do.
i hope that helped!!
good luck at school!!
if you need anymore advice feel free to e mail me at
AnimalPrecinct@peoplepc.com
2006-08-28 18:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, since you are about 12-13 years old
You are not mature enough to have bf/gf relationships
Besides you're ugly too
2006-08-28 18:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
tell your parents or a teacher about the first one
about the guy you like go up to him and start talking. Introduce yourself to him
2006-08-28 18:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋