i was at one of my friends house and we were the only one's home. so we invited our tw oguys friends over. me and one of them got cosy one the couch and my friend and the other boy were some where else. so we were there for like 2 hours. and just to let you kno i was liek so crushing on this guy. so it wsa time for them to go and we went out side to say bye and we got all close and had our heads together and i was gonna kiss him...but then he asked if he could kiss me. then i said no b/c i got all tense and it didnt feel right. and now i regret it. what should i have done?
2006-08-28 11:38:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
exactly what you did. You'll know when the time is right
2006-08-28 11:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by shelby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time you have a private time with this guy (and your sure he isn't just trying to get in your pants) just quietly say yes out of the blue------then when he looks all confused and says yes what? say you asked if you could kiss me and my answer is yes
personally the next move is up to you now since he got shot down and may not want to try again---it happens after rejection
but .........that is so sweet that he asked you first and didn't push you or try to steal it----watch out you might have found a sweetie good enough to keep ;)
2006-08-28 11:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by s91601 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight. You were about to kiss your crush and he asked you if he could do what you were about to do, so you said no. Hmm.
What you should have done was left this poor boy alone so he could hang out with a sane girl who knows what she wants.
2006-08-28 11:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its however you feel really. Maybe there was a reason you suddenly didnt want to kiss this guy. maybe it was a sign. or maybe you just got really nervous! thats ok. dont ask what should i have done because it already happened so just know what you're going to do next time! dont worry though. it makes you look better like you're not that easy to get.
2006-08-28 11:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by ice hcky rulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have kissed him when you were in the house and more outside before he left i think they wanted to do more i bet your friend and the other boy got it on.
2006-08-28 11:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fuc.ked up. There is no way to sugar coat this one. You had your chance and you blew it. He only asked you if he could kiss you, not if he could ***** you. If you like him back, you need to make a move. It should be easier specially now that you know he wants to kiss you
2006-08-28 11:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ok invite them over to ur friends house and then like when they wanna leave say goodbye and this time u ask if u can kiss him. goodluck gurl once tht happend to my best friend and i told her to do da same and she did and he said yea u can!!! i hope he kisses u!!! best of luk
2006-08-28 11:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by babe4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean if u didnt feel comfortable then u did the right thing 2 where as most girls they would say yes anywayz without paying attention to what goes on with themselves
2006-08-28 11:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by gurl_balla14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have followed your instinct, which you have done. Go ahead, and get comfy next time before leaning in to kiss him.
2006-08-28 11:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by UnR3aL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have done what felt right, if kissing didn't feel right, then you shouldn't have done it. When you're ready you'll be ready, there's no rush with stuff like this. So take your time.
2006-08-28 11:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by CR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yall wasnt dating u shouldnt kiss him,, jus b/c u like him u dont kiss him. so u did the ryte thing by saying no
2006-08-28 11:42:46 · answer #11 · answered by m_belongs-2-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋