I dont want to hold a grudge, but things are so hard to get over, what should i do?

Question

I definatly dont want to hold a grudge, but this girl like was a total ***** to me and my friends we used to be best friends but then she decided that she wanted to be pouplar so she ditched us for thoes other girls. Now her new friends have dropped her and she went to a different group. Now I told her that we should ignore echoter j/b of what happens in the past. so we are both nice but i find my self talking about her and how big of a ***** she is... what should i do to help myself get over this, Alot happend and she never appoligized to me... i caint explain all b/c its way too long. HELP!!

Answer 1

things like this take an emence amount of time to get over, its increadibly hard, but just be nice and limit how many times you talk about her, lets say you do it five times a day... the next day only do 4 and so on b4 u know it it will be over

Answer 2

Don't hold it in or you will probably get in a screaming match some day when it becomes too much to hold in. When there's just the two of you, explain exactly how you feel about what she did and tell her you feel that she should apologize for what she did. If she refuses, you still have your other friends and she doesn't deserve your friendship. This is assuming you didn't do or say anything hateful to her. If you did, then you also need to apologize.

Answer 3

Hey, she doesn't even know or CARE how you're feeling; you're just beating yourself up for nothing, honey! Just ignore the little b*itch and go about your life. If she wants to join your group, let her. You don't want to be like her, do you? Show that you're more mature than she is and that will humble her. Stop trashing her too, it only makes you look small. Let her carry your books or something. You'll find out as you get older that this crap isn't worth the time or effort to worry about. Be happy, honey! god bless!