i just started a new job and i feel like quiting?

Question

i hate it
i mean not hte job, i actually like what i do
BUT the whole attmosphire in the office, strange ppl, i feel like i don't fit , like no one wants to talk to me
or i have nothing to talk to them
is this common?
thanks its my first job, i just graduated from college

Answer 1

Get used to it babe... Imagine this and you'll come to understand... Picture every person here on yahoo questions and answers all together in one big room together for 8 hours a day. The what should I do moron, the angry, the twits, the clueless the wretched, the horrible, the pent up atheist and the track leaving around frigging christian idiot... and there you have... the workplace.

The only difference is... one underpays you to put up with it and the other you over pay to put up with...

This place is as close as I ever want to get. The thought of it actually makes me physically ill!

I would be the Passive-agressive, hypochondriac, know it all and the germaphobe.

Hi nice to meet you! NOW GET OUT OF MY FUC*KING CUBICLE before you sneeze on me or something!

Answer 2

Hi hon, what company do you work for if you don't mind me asking. Some companies are notorious for actions such as this. But that is also because you have just graduated from college, and it takes time to get used to the atmosphere, people are probably also busy there and could care less about anybody else. Everybody wants to climb up, up up...

however, give it a few weeks, see if everyone has warm up to you a bit, and see if you like it better. do you like what you do? if yes, then stick with it and concentrate on what you are doing.

I understand that the environment does matter. But if after a few weeks this does not work out for you, try looking for other jobs.

I would recommend quitting only after you have been hired by another company.

hope this helps.

damn those strange ppl! :)

Answer 3

So many people are unhappy with their situation. Having to come in so early, be on the clock by a certain time, answer to their boss why they were 5 min late because they were stuck in traffic dropping off their children whom they rarely ever see these days... long hours....it's endless....they should all do what I did. Fire the boss and work for themselves! I'm happier now than I ever been! Especially after reading Robert Kiyosaki's book from the Rich Dad Poor Dad "The Business School" I'm on my way to being on the other side of the cash flow quadrant! If you're interested in knowing more, the proven formula presentation is incredible. A must see!
As with any business you look at... do check with the BBB :)
Bev
http://www.bedavis1.mywayout.net/

PS: If you can hang in there a little longer, you can achieve your dreams of getting on the other side and reaching your goals. But while you're working on that, hang in there, give them time. It takes time for people to warm up to a new person. Let them see your personality and your character.. in time they'll get used to seeing you and becoming more friendly.

Answer 4

Part of me wants to just say "Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life." But that's just the bitter corporate side...

I suppose the important thing is your personal situation:
Do you need this job? Is it in your particular field?
Are you looking for a long carreer in that industry?

If "yes," you might want to stick it out for a couple reasons. First, we all have bills to pay. Second, if you're in a entry-level job in an industry in which you want to remain, a quick departure from a new job could look bad on your record.

If this is just something to fill in until the "right" job comes along, and you can afford it, go ahead and quit (or keep working while looking for a better job). Once you're working, the years fly by and it's all too easy to fall into a routine, boring job.

Answer 5

First of all, congratulations on landing your first job!

I felt the same way when I started my first job out of college. It's totally new and you'll probably feel the same way wherever you go ~ regardless of the company.

Your first job is important because it lays the foundation for your future. I'd say stick to it for at least a year, learn lots, keep your head down and your spirits up, get good references and be on your way. Don't stay if you're being harassed or something like that... but otherwise stick it out for at least a year.

Employers look for people with a steady resume. Job hoppers are often avoided due to hiring and training costs.

Answer 6

Welcome to the corporate world. You'll be hard pressed to find ANY office environment that's pleasing or fun to be in. yes it is normal and depending on how long you've been working there also factors in. if it's been less than a month or around that time frame then you need to "settle" in first. if you've been there awhile then it's time for a change. You'll have some trouble adjusting from the college environment to the office one and you'll come across lots of undesirable people in the process. just strike a balance with your co-workers. do not be shy but at the same time do not be overly outgoing. Big thing you need to find out is who the office snitch is. find this person and avoid at all costs.

Answer 7

If you actually like what you do - that's half the battle.
Try asking your co-workers about themselves and get to know their likes and dislikes. People love to talk about THEMSELVES.
And be a good listener. If you show an interest in them, they'll like talking to you. And give them a compliment - don't overdo it, just be as pleasant as you can. Smile.
You're lucky to have a job that you like. You can deal with the people. Give it time.

Answer 8

It takes awhile to get to know new people in an enviroment, give it a few weeks to see how you like it, i felt the same way a coiuple months ago when i got a job, they are wondering about you as you are about them.

Answer 9

I agree with LN, it takes a little while to adjust and your coworkers probably haven't really gotten a chance to warm up to you yet. Give it some time, especially if you actually like your actual job.

Answer 10

Hang in there and I promise it will get better. Start networking with the "Newer" people and any new people that come in --before you know it, you will be chatting and feeling right at home. These things take time!