2006-08-28 10:52:39 · 26 answers · asked by Married Male 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really love her, why do you care?
2006-08-28 10:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really make a difference!?!? You fell in love with her anyway, knowing that she used to strip? Why drag up something from the past if she is already your wife?
Most strippers do it because of the love to dance and the good money, there are few and far between that get paid for the extras that some give, not all.
So take your wife to dinner, get her a sexy outfit and let her strip for you when she gets home, hand her a couple dollars....and see if you get extras!
2006-08-28 17:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you married a former stripper, why would you be concerned about her hooking. Do you see some kind of difference between a woman that has sex with a lot of men and a woman that has sex for money? There is no difference.
Do not worry about this. Concentrate on what she does now and how loving she is to you. Even if she didn't hook you can bet she has been with a lot of men so get over it.
2006-08-28 18:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I only know one former stripper and I absolutely believe her when she said it stopped at the stage. She liked to dance and the money was good.
If you were concerned about it, you should have asked her before you got married. And trusted her to tell you the truth. There is no way now that you'll ever know for sure, so you're probably better off leaving the past in the past.
2006-08-28 19:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a bartender in a strip club for a couple of years and became very close to alot of the dancers. I can tell you first hand that most of the girls were there because they enjoyed what they were doing and made great money doing it.......BUT.....the stage is definitely where it stopped. Even among the girls anyone who screwed the clients was looked down on. I can't speak for your wife but in my opinion I would leave the past in the past. What she did before she met you made her the woman you fell in love with.......and married!! Don't open that can of worms!!!!!
2006-08-28 18:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by naughtyflirt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little too late now to wonder. At any rate, dont be a pig and assume she was hooking. Some people strip to get through school, or support their family, and for a lot of good reasons.
2006-08-28 18:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have found that out before you said I do, Don't you think it is a little to late to be worried about her past, the future is what u should be worried about the most,And by the way, not all strippers are hookers, only 99.9% of them are,
2006-08-28 18:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ripper 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did say that was before you, "didn't you go with a lot of women before her? what is the difference. You need to let sleeping dogs, lie. Think about it you may have the best of both worlds. You must of loved her to marry her, to get her out of that life style, Man, enjoy life.
2006-08-28 18:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else-the past is the past. It was before she met you and If it bothers you -you should have found that out before you married her instead of bringing all this up now.
2006-08-28 18:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By asking her. However she should have told you if she were hooking before you guys got married.
2006-08-28 18:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by jessica b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On that same thought, can your wife ask about every person you had sex with before she met you?
2006-08-28 18:08:40 · answer #11 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋