2006-08-28 10:45:32 · 15 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wheni told her she told me she has been feeling the same way too. she was just afraid to tell me. now that we have everything out in the open we feel different. she also told me that she doesn't want me to be with anyone else but the problem is is that she has a bf. which i don't like. i don't know what to do because i love her and i know she loves me back but her sorry ***, good for nothing bf is in the way. i'm not looking for anyone to tell me it is wrong or nasty cuz that is your opinion. just tell me what i should do about her and our feelins for each other.
2006-08-28 10:57:04 · update #1
just talk to her and explain that you feel funny since telling her that you had feelings for her, and see how she feels...maybe everything is ok!
2006-08-28 11:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I see................maybe the reason why youre feeling weird is because you may not like females. Are you sure it wasnt just a fantasy? That could be a reason why you are feeling the way you do also. Have you thought of making up a silly lie to tell your friend something different? Maybe you can take that comment back!? Thought about just saying you wanted to just "try" it? How does she feel about it? If shes ignoring you or looking at you "weird" then I would think about how you actually feel!
2006-08-28 17:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, im not lesbian but your problem is common for us straight fokes too. first how is it ok that she can have a bf and you cant go out with any one else? Second if shes not willing to leave him and be with you, maybe you are more her fantasy then an actual love interest. just something to think about. maybe you should ask her again about her feelings for you and see if you can get a straight forward answer. if she doesnt want to commit to you then you should move on and find somebody better.
2006-08-28 18:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by kaalynshae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i hate people who say EWWWW judging people like they are better than somebody!!!! i think it all depends on if she feels the same way or if she is straight or bi....if shes not then just leave it as you said what you felt and dont mention it again to her. if she feels the same way then go for it. if not find a new girl. and dont let other people put you down on here by judging you.....if they dont want to help you they shouldnt even answer the question or make a remark!!
2006-08-28 17:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how she's responded, if she feels the same way then its all good and you don have to feel weird, and if she doesn't than you should move on, its not easy if you love her but, you both wil be happy. what matters is that you are not haning down on your feelings, because han you may miss on many things. Feeling weird, is ok, and you shouldn't think on it much.
2006-08-28 17:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Preeti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 19, my best friend told me she was attracted to me. I felt betrayed. The friendship was over.I miss her as a friend, thou. I wish she hadn't felt that way. I guess, what I'm trying to say is you have to be truthful to your girl friends from the start. If you know you are a lesbian, you have to say it up front when starting a new friendship.
2006-08-28 17:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling embarrassed is not the end of the world.. Give her time to process the information and see where it goes from there.. Good Luck.. And STOP worrying!!!
2006-08-28 17:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi. And, it is perfectly natural for you too feel that way. It doesn't mean anything. You could be gay you could be straight. Everyone has felt that way at one point or another, and if they say they haven't they are lying because they dont wanna be "weird" . Whatever that is...
2006-08-28 17:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post the pictures pls.
2006-08-28 17:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by managuense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh...moin spiele...ich haben sie moin spiele!.... anyways... who cares if u lez... and if u aren't theres only 1 reason... im not be perv or anything dude but i asked my gf and she says it might be the 'P' if u going through it... that mighta caused all this... and you just ended up loving her after the P ended... i think u should dump her...tell her it was a misunderstanding... and this aint it... who gives a damn... its your life...u be w/e u wanna be... if u wanna be a Lez Mcdonald Hamburger Flipper who cares... u wanted to be one.... and u are... life couldn't get any simpler
2006-08-28 18:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy a cake, bring out the booze.. have a party, then tell your mom the great news and tape her doing the snoopy happy dance..
2006-08-28 17:51:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋