mmk well me and my boyfriend have gotten back to gether and its been almost 3 weeks.... well he went back to washington to live with his dad... he`ll be back in 3 months... but im starting to second guess our relationship... Im starting a new school with new boys... and he never calls or anything... and Im the one who always calls... I want to break things off with him but I dont 1. because of what people will say 2. because its gonna kill me because he is my first love.......
what do I do???
2006-08-28 10:31:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
also this question has nothing to do with age... so please no comments about age- Thanks
2006-08-28 10:36:40 · update #1
Since he just moved, he's probably just spending some time with his dad and all... And he probably doesn't call much beause you call a lot (I can't say for sure since you didn't say how often you call).
But I'd probably wait for those 3 months to pass, and talk to him about things and see how he feels when he comes back. Until then, take the time to spend time with your friends; they probably miss you. Plus it'll give you something to talk about to your boyfriend when you call. You could tell him about the movie you saw with them and stuff like that.
Hope this helps you out. =)
2006-08-28 11:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Punky Brewster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might sound blunt but getting back together and after 3 weeks moving away doesn't sound too promising. Are you really sure this guy's into you? I mean not to be rude or anything but to make a relationship work two people must have some kind of connection/communication going, right? I don't see that in your relationship... Ask him what's up and if he really wants to be with you because it sounds like he's not taking it seriously. Well, not as serious as you are. And for crying out loud why do you care what others say/think about you, it's YOUR life, YOUR decisions! Best of luck girl.
2006-08-28 10:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by SnowLeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient. 3 months may seem like forever for you, but why are you stressing out. So what if there are new boys at your school? You are happy in your relationship right??
Take these 3 months and seriously consider what this relationship means to you, is it worth the effort? Your boyfriend probably doesnt call as much because he's content in the relationship. Whereas you feel guilty....you see these boys and you start comparing them with your guy. Totally not cool.
try not to call as much, go out and enjoy this time with your friends. Take up a hobby or something and decide whether this relationship is for you or not!
2006-08-28 10:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by nat04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now i will tell u this only once, start your new school. do your school work, and think about boys in a few yrs, you should be able to make sound judgements by then,
2006-08-28 10:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ripper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling ends the relationship real fast
2006-08-28 10:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Why are you still here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie - this is a temporary teenage relationship, so don't get all stressed about it.
Move on babe
2006-08-28 10:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him and don't look until you're old enough to understand what it means.
2006-08-28 10:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Bamos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him pronto.
2006-08-28 17:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋