Im dating someone that really likes me but idont like her. How do i break uo with her without breaking her heart???
2006-08-28 10:31:26 · 15 answers · asked by James T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you lead her up the garden path,
Now you say you don’t want to break her heart.
What kind of Jerk are you anyway…
Put an end to it immediately I say.
2006-09-01 08:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well JAMES T, Firstable u should hav thought about it before u dated her and who knows whatever u did with her. Now u have to say the truth that comes from ur heart not from ur mouth. U hav to be honest or you will be breaking her heart. do u know what I m saying, maybe u need to take her out somewhere is nice and tell what ever u think of her, and then break up with her.
I don't get y boys like u do this things, first u go out with a girl u don't like then u go out with other girl who happen to pass by u, and then date both of them at same time by not telling ur real feeling for them. Good luk.
2006-08-29 15:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to prevent breaking someone's heart. The best thing to do is just to break it to her gently. Just tell her you can't see her anymore and that you need to think things through. It depends on the kind of girl it is, what she would rather want, some girls would prefer brutal honesty, others would prefer you just ignore them and not return calls and leave them guessing. So try a happy medium and it seems like you care if you want not to break her heart, so tell her you do still care and you would like to still be friends and talk to her. good luck.
2006-08-28 17:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say but If you dont like this person then break it off as gently as possible....... There is no better time as the present and there is no way to avoid this person from being hurt ....Gently explain to him or her that you would like to be friends but that you believe it will never be serious. THE longer you wait. the harder it will become for both of you .....good luck..... Do it now and dont wait.........make it easy for you both........dont worry.......the hurt will go away for this person..every day makesit easier for you both.........
2006-08-28 17:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by goldensunshine48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to break up with someone, without breaking their heart.
2006-08-28 17:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...there is no any way that she won't be hurt. But if you are not honest with her that will make it worse....and make things drag on. Be upfront with her and say how you feel about your relationship with her. Would you not want the same respect?
Good luck and remember that this is just part of life.
2006-08-28 17:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it a.s.a.p. If she really likes you, it doesn't matter how you do it - it'll hurt her anyway; but both of you will be better of in the long run. Be honest with her and let her know you're not interested.
2006-08-28 17:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u are sure that she is not ur dream girl. than
tell her that u don't like her may be say just as a friend.
tell her we can get nothing from this relationship.
and if she loves u she will understand.
i am sure she will understands u
2006-08-28 17:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by Preet Gill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you like her as a friend.. but you are not in love with her...
dont' mention you are in l ove with someone else.. she doesn't need the extra suffering... as you shouldn't have left yourself get attached to someone else while you were dating her...
good luck
2006-08-28 17:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No easy way out of this one just do it gently and the sooner the better.
2006-08-28 19:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋