2006-08-28 10:30:34 · 11 answers · asked by sweet_lil_angel4evr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your avatar is sad, so I know that you are too. You miss him a lot, don't you? He's a lucky man. Here are some suggestions.
1) Keep him filled in on your daily schedule. The more details the better. That way, he won't be wondering what's going on with you and trying to fill in the blanks with his imagination. And, you'll feel more connected to him to.
2) Plenty of mushy talk. Love you. Waiting for you. I have some things that need attention when you get back.
3) You'll think this one's crazy, but I would find it very reassuring. Buy a small vibrator and paint his name on it. Send him a picture of it and tell him it's just the placeholder. (The picture will be even better if you're in it, if you know what I mean.)
2006-08-28 10:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what you feel I have the same problem I'm in Germany and he is in America, and we have a 7 month old child, and he saw him the last time when he was 3 weeks old, so it isn't easy for us, but don't stop talking to your husband, there will be days when you cant talk but on the days stay and talk and like the other people say think positive and when its getting hard for you sit down and write him a letter tell him a bout your feelings and that you miss him and stuff like that or what I do I look at our son, and think about the day when we will be together, when he is at the war it is the same to talk and send him all kinds of stuff, that is what they need over there (we had that to for one year)
2006-08-28 17:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by tani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact with him by snail mail and by email. Have your local school children send him well wishes. Send him a package will all of his favorite cookies and snacks. Go around to family members and take their pictures to send to him. Pray to God about his safety.
2006-08-28 17:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's in the US Military, if that's what you mean, Send him all kinds of letters & beef jerky, & he as well as all his boyz over there know what they're doing and they got eachothers back...they got some good training over here & now they are over there gettin some' !!!! That's some good trash!!! He'll be back.....
But if by oversea's you mean he's a reporter or he's some kind of lesbian peace core hippy.....then just go fukc your neighbor!!!
2006-08-28 17:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, be FAITHFUL to him while he is away and write to him daily or as close to that as you can, send pictures and make sure he has a phone card to call home. God BLess
2006-09-05 09:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Patti Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain faithful. It's a common story of "husband goes away, wife finds play"
You wouldn't want to be common, would you?
2006-08-28 17:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by A N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you love him and that you support whatever he decide to do. stay positive and send him your concerns. tell him that you care for him and you'll b waiting for him at home.
2006-08-28 17:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by samdrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone him to tell him you love him....of course he won't be there to answer it, as he's probably banging the a.s.s off some local hottie!
2006-08-28 17:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like the first answer says stay positive go to church you'll be ok and please don't cry :( i'll pray for you and your husband he probably would want you to stay positive
2006-08-28 17:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a video of you having sex with me.
2006-08-28 17:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋