I've seen on the news about teachers, both men and women having affairs with thier students, and well you know how that goes once thier caught, the teacher gets fired and what not. But in movies, some are like fairy tales almost, when it is possible. The question is that since its different with high school and college, casue high school is too conservitive, and college is more liberal casue your an adult and your aware of a lot of stuff. Is it right to have an affair with your college proffesor, but thats if your real carefull when you know he/she is single and you both go out and your just a regular couple, can that happen or is it just one of those illusions that can only be seen on the movies. I just wanna know also the diffence on having an a affair with a teacher/professor, in a high school and college. And if its right dating your own teacher, cause honestly some are very sexy and attractive.
2006-08-28 10:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on what your agenda is. If you really like this teacher then wait until your not his/her student anymore then have the affair. But why have an affair? Affairs are typically an illicit thing? You can't be free in an affair...just wait and then date to see what will happen.
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Good Luck
2006-08-28 10:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all, it is completely inethical for a teacher to have an affair with a student. (which why it is forbidden in almost all educational institutions). But high school students most definately should NOT be having affairs with their teachers as most of them aren't even at the age of consent (I don't know what it is where you live but it's 17 in NY).
I agree that lots of people have fantasies about this- but thats really all that it should be. Don't get me wrong I'm all about free love- between consentual adults- not between people who hold authority and the people they hold it over!
2006-08-28 17:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by rachel o 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not right because that person is in an authority position and they should not be having affairs because it could look upon as a force relationship and most of the time it's in their contract about things like that.
2006-08-28 17:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't have a affair with anyone. A relationship is different if you are over 18 than it's legal and that is fine.
2006-08-28 17:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yo that's not cool and it's not right to have an affair with your teacher because it's just plain stupid, wrong, and not atractive at. Also GET A LIFE!!!!
2006-08-28 17:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by navydaugh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
They can still lose their career.
Do you want to feel responsible for that?
2006-08-28 17:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Umm ew and no!
2006-08-28 17:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~Veronica~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋