why can`t i have an orgasm while I am having sex with my boyfriend? (i`m a female)?

Question

I started havin sex 3 months ago and i still can`t reach to orgasm

Answer 1

Try having sex with girls. It works for me.

Answer 2

You should really try having an orgasm on your own. Then show your boyfriend what to do to bring you to orgasm. Not all women can achieve orgasm during penetration and there is nothing wrong with you if you can't. Try being on top and leaning forwards, towards his chest. Then just work it girl. Have fun with it and don't try too hard, you'll never come that way. ;-)

Answer 3

Can you have one by yourself? If not, you need to explore your body and find out what turns you on and what feels good to where you can reach that point. Then ask you boyfriend do the same until you're comfortable enough with him to reach orgasm.

Have fun.

Answer 4

With some females it's hard to reach an orgasm. Spice up your sex life. Try new positions, talk dirty anything to turn you on.

Answer 5

I had the same issue. Maybe you need to be stimulated a little more. Maybe he should try giving you oral some more until you climax. Or maybe you should stimulate yourself by rubbing your clit while you're engaged in intercourse. Try other positions, toys, or let him know whats going on. Maybe he can help.

The best way to fix this is to start alone and find out what really turns you on while you masturbate. You are your best source.

Chances are you're too young to be having sex and don't really know your body all too well. You should wait if you don't know what you're doing.

Answer 6

Most of the time just intercourse can not give a women an orgasm, that is totally normal. Join in on the fun and rub your self (clit) while you are having sex. Also try riding him his penis will go deeper and his pubic bone will rub on you clit, makes for one hell of an orgasm :)

Answer 7

Some women can't orgasm during intercourse. Try initiating some manual stimulation of your clitoris during intercourse. For most women, this is the only way they can orgasm. If you are underage... STOP HAVING SEX.

Answer 8

there are so many myths about sexuality it's no wonder that you are having problems!
a majority of men learn about the act of sex through movies and porn - the problem with that is that men are visual creatures.......so seeing others doing it turns them on......unfortunately most porn is designed to please men not woman.....woman need sensory stimulation and romance......not exactly a priority in porn..... most woman can not climax through regular intercourse. Although it feels good for them, most woman need direct clitoral stimulation. They acheive orgasm best through oral sex or foreplay stimulation.... tradional sex positions don't allow the direct stimulation they need. Try to explain this gently to your boyfriend. Tell him what I told you....see if he can concentrate on you more during sex. My husband keeps one hand on me to directly stimulate me until I climax. I hope you can help your partner understand you and your body better otherwise you will have a lifetime of unfulfilling sex and resentment.

Answer 9

ok hunny your not the only one!!!!!!!! many many many women 85 % to be eact CAN NOT REACH ORGASM VAGINALY!!! most women have to have clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Try oral sex and see if your can orgasm that way. or try being on top then you can stimulate your clitoris yourself on his pelvic bone as you ride him. and relax and enjoy sex can be very enjoyable even if you dont orgasm but my boyfried gives me oral all the time and i orgasm EVERY TIME! try it you WILL love it!!!!

Answer 10

Plain and simple, you don't know how to get it... 3 months is not a lot of trying... Some women can't reach orgasam throughout their whole lives...

Answer 11

You need to try and figure it out yourself...what makes you orgasm so that you can tell your bf how to do it for you.