I still love this man with all my heart but i am not sure if i need to continue to talk to him.He left me with no where to go. We work together every day so its really hard bc i see him everyday. I need help on this situation do i still need to speak to him futher than work?
2006-08-28 09:36:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The day that he left me she had the baby? but she treats him like hell. He says he wishes things could of been different but i don't think he loved me in the first place
2006-08-28 09:38:18 · update #1
Time for you to start a new life! As I understand it, he left when the baby was born? Did you ever think that he was using you for sex while she possibly couldn't? A man will - or should - always choose his children over any woman in his space.
I know it will be difficult for you with working with him. Come on - girl! Women are much tougher than we are given credit for. Show him what you are made of! Go to work with a smile. Be pleasant, but no more. Do not let him come around at all. I really think he used you. Hey - it has happened to all of us! Been there done that. Stand up tall! Open your eyes and look at the situation as a third party. Yes, it will hurt. But you will then understand.
2006-08-28 09:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who really deserves sympathy in this situation is the newborn baby. Let this man and the baby's mother try to work it out, but if they can't then see how you feel about him. Because if you let him back into your life, you must fact the reality that he now has a child to care for and support for the next 18 years.
2006-08-28 16:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a grip and review your definition of love. Does his behavior really fit your definition? I hope not. This is why its a mistake to get involved with people you work with and why you shouldn't do it. Of course you don't need to speak with him further than work and why not look for another job? If this is what he calls love I personally, wouldn't want his love, how about you?
2006-08-28 16:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to ask yourself why you would WANT to be with someone who has made it clear that he can't be with you. Not in the way that you want anyway. Brush it off and move on
2006-08-28 16:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. MP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my advice... He doesnt want to be bothered... be happy that you havent invested 10 years in a dead end relationship and let that fool know that he looked better leaving!
2006-08-28 16:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by comingofage03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably easier to live with her than pay the child support..plus he has a child now....priority one.
2006-08-28 16:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new job and never talk or think about him again
2006-08-28 16:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by steve e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
treat him like hell too...
Kick him in the nuts.!!!!!!!!! He doesn't love you....he loves what you have and give up when he wants it
2006-08-28 16:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by e_guanajuato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser, move on with your life!!
2006-08-28 16:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋