jaya is so mean
2006-08-28 09:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by Brandi J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nah...not worth the grief.
2006-08-28 09:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didnt I just answer a question like this?? UGH!!! NO YOU DON'T FIGHT ANYONE! You have no right to put your hands on anyone else I don't care how mean they are. You are making the choice to let this person bother you, just make a different choice. You are being sucked in to this mean persons game, they mess with you and are mean, you react to it and let them bother you, thereby giving that mean person power over you, the power to effect how you feel, the power to make you unhappy and by doing so you give the mean person the pay off they are looking for. By simply deciding not to be bothered by such silly crap you accomplish two things...one you don't feel bad anymore, two you take away their power and their payoff, making it no fun at all for that person to be mean to you anymore. Here is the example I always used for my kids...if someone poked you in the arm over and over again and you wiggled and screamed and yelled for them to stop it that person (who was obviously trying to annoy you) has accomplished their mission and will keep doing it...IF on the other hand you sit there like you don't even notice they exist how long do you think it will be fun for them to continue to poke you in the arm? What do you think the chances are they will try it again since it didn't work the first time? Same thing. Nothing she says changes YOU, unless of course you do fight her, that does change you, and gets you an assault charge.
How were you raised? Where did you get the idea that its ok for you to intentionally harm another human being? Make the CHOICE to be better and stronger (in your brain) than she is...if you fight her aren't you just becoming what you claim to hate (mean)? That doesn't make much sense does it? Besides that do you really think it will change her or who she is? Think it all the way through...say you do it, then what happens? She doesn't change and you get in trouble...hmmmm whats the point to that exactly?
2006-08-28 09:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who in da hell is jaya
2006-08-28 10:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by ladybugof93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Beat her A**
2006-08-28 09:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by sweetLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could but it might not solve anything.
2006-08-28 09:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really????????
2006-08-28 09:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by dnagsarkar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋