2006-08-28 09:04:46 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I say apprecaite, I mean in a sexual way...
2006-08-28 09:11:32 · update #1
Yes, you're married but not dead. The vows say "forsaking all others..." meaning that even if you find someone else attractive, you don't not give in to any impulses because of love and commitment to your husband supercedes any fleeting feeling you may hve for anyone else.
Nobody ever said making lifelong commitments is easy! Control yourself and good luck to you.
2006-08-28 09:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by Duende71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, some of my best friends have been of the male gender. I am a 72 year old Southern lady, married for 46 years and I still appreciate nicely proportioned, pleasant men, old and young. My husband says "looking OK, no touching". But then I am a "toucher and hugger" and I feel entitled to such at 72. They all know I am harmless and often times flirt with me (which I love)!
2006-08-28 09:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ida B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say No because adultery is the word that comes to mind and if you knew that you were going to be giving it up to another man then what was the point in getting married.
2006-08-28 09:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes, you're married not blind! There's nothing wrong with finding someone attractive other than your husband. The problem comes in what you do with that. Say in your mind 'damn he's fine!' and keep on moving. Otherwise, you may be headed for unnecessary drama and trouble.
2006-08-28 09:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by shosha_tiqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Just because we're married it doesn't mean we can't appreciate someone else of the opposite sex. As long as you keep it at that and not act on your feelings, it's completely normal.
2006-08-28 09:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate him for what? Doing some repairs around the house or with the car? Then yes it is normal. But if there is any fooling around absolutely not.
2006-08-28 09:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the level of appreciation. Anyone can appreciate a certain personality of a man without any malice on it.
2006-08-28 09:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by azianna*gabrielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much "appreciate" another man while not using birth control or protection.
2006-08-28 09:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can appreciate another man. Just dont' let it lead to emotional, sexual, or physical intimacy.
2006-08-28 09:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you mean appreciate him? Just complimenting him is ok. But doing anything beyond that isn't right.
2006-08-28 09:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋