While I don't agree with you lying to your husband, I can understand your reasoning.
If you have concieved, I think he will forgive you. You can make telling him into a big and fun surprise.
At this point, taking the test now or later won't matter. You probably want to wait simply because you really don't want to see the negative sign again. Personally, I think you should get it over with. The added stress over it and the mistruth to your husband isn't helping anything.
Still crossing my fingers for you.
PS - At this point, I'm darn curious too.
2006-08-28 08:56:21
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answered by C K Platypus 6
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I think it wrong. I mean if he's that excited to get you pregnant, the least you could do is take a test to see if you are. I can imaging how stressful this must be for you & we don't know all the circumstances behind your actions so they can be validad. but then what are you going to do if you findout that you really are pregnant. tell him that you lied because you wanted him to stop asking you? Talk to him & let him know that this is a bit overwhelming & you need him to just kick back a little. you guys are both on the same ship but you can't foce it. So the best thing for him to do would be to give it a few days. & you should take go to a dr. to get a clear test. or at least take a home test. but let him know that you have to wait a few days. & he has to relax because it can be nerve wrecking on both of you,but more on you when he adds pressure like that. Good luck!!
2006-08-28 09:47:28
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answered by Anonymous
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i do not see a lot of 'his mistake'. became there some reason you ought to not say 'carry on a minute honey i favor to end this important artwork proper call, then we may be able to visit lunch' ? Or, even notwithstanding the decision became 'important', ought to you've basically stated 'Oh, I extremely could head i am going to call you back in an hour."? Or became this a own call? so that you ought to assert 'gotta go my husband is the following'. more effective to the point, if that's 11:fifty 8 and your cellular earrings, and also you comprehend your husband will be there to devour lunch at 12:00. Then do not %. up the phone. Heck..turn the phone off.
2016-10-15 21:55:52
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answered by ? 4
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Maybe lying to him wasn't the best idea. Sit him down and tell him that you want to wait a couple of days, and ask him to respect that. It's great that he's so excited about this, don't ruin it by trying to keep up a lie, in the long run it isn't going to make you feel any better. Maybe you are already feeling guilty about it, tell him the truth and you'll get through it just fine.
I hope this month is the month for you, good luck!
2006-08-28 08:53:39
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answered by S. O. 4
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You shouldn't lie to him. My husband and I are ttc our second child. It took 8 months to conceive our first, so I know all about the disappointment. However, aren't you just postponing the disappointment if you aren't pregnant? If you aren't, then at least you'll both know now, then you'll know Aunt Flow will be coming soon. Think of it this way, if you take it now and you are pregnant, it's that much sooner the two of you can celebrate.
Best wishes and stay honest with your hubby. Trust is a hard thing to get back once it's lost.
2006-08-28 09:07:12
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answered by Melissa B 5
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It's not wrong that you dont want to stress, but you should have told your husband the truth. It sounds as if he is as excited as you about having a child. I think if you still haven't started, you should go and talk with him. If you havent' started in a weeks time, go to the doctor and have him do a blood test.
2006-08-28 08:54:20
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answered by kimberleibenton 4
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I think it will be okay for you to take a test today. (It took me a year and half to become pregnant with my first.) I tested on the day I was supposed to receive a "visit" too. If you are pregnant, it will show today.
As far as your husband is concerned, I do not think you should have lied to him. He is only expressing his concerns/excitement. I know what it is like to have a disappointment every month, but you shouldn't lie about it to him. He has a right to know so he can express he feelings.
2006-08-28 08:59:41
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answered by Kristy 2
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i don't know about it being wrong...but i do think that it wasn't very nice.
why can't you just tell him that you don't want to jinx anything and you want to wait a few more days to take a test.
there are lots of dads out there who aren't that into pregnancy, so please realize how lucky you are:)
i know it's hard to be thankful for a great partner when they are driving you bonkers (mine was in rare form this weekend:) but stand back and realize how special they are!
just tell him tonight that you thought you had gotten it, but you didn't. that way you can erase that lie. then, if he asks you take a test, just tell him that you'd rather wait a few days so the test will be more acurate!
hang in there....it'll happen:)
2006-08-28 08:59:53
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answered by joey322 6
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Um...yes. You should not lie like that. If you are able to tell a little lie like this just to get him off your back, how are you going to react to bigger questions? Tell him to back off, wait a couple days, then you'll test. Sometimes your body will give you signals that you WANT without it being the real thing.
2006-08-28 08:51:37
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answered by Mommymonster 7
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I think it is wrong for you to lie to him especially since you BOTH want to have a baby, Why not tell him the truth he seems like he really wants to be part of every emotion and step your going thru and that is not very common for men .... good luck..
2006-08-28 09:02:53
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answered by tinker 2
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