my best friend is a boy and we are 14 he says he wants to have sex with me cause he feels we have known each other so long !! we have known each other since we were 3 months old our mother are best friends so we were together like non stop !! he is really hot a great friend i can trust him no matter what and he ask me to exsperement with stuff u know what i mean what do u think i should do have u ever had this problem or eney thing like this im going to dinner tonight with me him his mom and my mom and we are probelly going to be together tonight after words need help!!
2006-08-28 08:46:51 · 20 answers · asked by sprinkle0girl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No. dont do it.
2006-09-01 07:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by HarMonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..so you have known this boy for your whole life..and while it may be easier to sleep with eachother for your first, it isnt a good idea. Not only could it hurt or ruin your relationship with him now, but it could end up where you get pregnant.So think are you ready for the responsibility that could come along? My feeling is that since your asking if you should do it then you arent ready. If you were ready you would not doubt your feelings.But you are young and should live your life before you start thinking about sex.
2006-08-28 12:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl your 14 you don't want or need to have sex at such a early age,but that is your decision to make.Please make the right choice say no,because you might regret it after-wards.Do you or him even know about safe sex.If he really care for you he would wait until you'll are at a age that you can stand the consequence if something is to go wrong and accept you'll responsibilities.THINK WISELY.
2006-09-01 02:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have Sex! You are both too young. Do you want to get pregnant? The ONLY safe sex is no sex. But it is your life and your decision and if you think that you are responsible enough to deal with the consequences that sex may bring than by all means do what you think you are ready to do.
2006-08-28 08:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im around ur age i no that hes ur best friend but i dont think u should firstly ur to young so am i even if i wanted to first u guys should be bf and gf and then if hes the one do it with him but not after dinner tonight take thing alittle slowers
2006-08-28 09:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by shycool937 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do end up having sex with him, you should be older and the time should be right. you should never plan to have sex with him or anybody else. it is a natural occurrence that should just happen. and if it happens with him, fine. if not that's fine, too. just make sure that you're doing what feels right. if you have any doubts, its probably not the best choice for you right now.
2006-08-29 15:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by rayne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, okay. you have to be calm. well...do you love him? it's really weird when your friendship goes from just being best friends to being partners, but if you really care about each other you'll be fine. I think you'll be fine if u trust him with everything and he probably trusts you, but its going to be really weird at first. u should both try and take it easy when u start out. and appreciate him to ask u this because it was probably extremely nervewracking for him to do that.
good luck!!!!!!!!! just start off and see where ur body takes u.
2006-08-28 08:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by julesrules714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough thing I think you guys should first try making out first and then if that's going strong and you guys are positive that you love each other than go buy some condoms and go for it.
2006-08-28 08:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by tiara girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey. you are still very young. if you are unsure it shows that you are not ready. just because he is hot, you guys share a deep friendship relation. not a love relation. i advise you not to. sex is an intimate and beautiful thing. im 17 and still am a virgin. still waiting for the right guy. :)
2006-08-28 08:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you but sex can really change friendship a lot- no matter how close you are. Plus it would also be nice to save yourself for that special someone.
2006-08-28 08:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by christa b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your Mom. Both Mothers are friends. The issue involves all of you.
2006-08-31 11:13:09 · answer #11 · answered by rc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋