How is it possible that guys can just go for girls and do the deed with out getting all emotional in the initial and post phases.
2006-08-28 08:33:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Guys are evil and compulsive liars until about 30. They want to fit in but still rely on social acceptance for fulfillment. Most social circles and forms of media hype the practice of sexual conquests and machismo as ways to establish himself. Great men don't rely on petty, self-serving achievements to find equals or worrying about fitting in for that matter. Great men that count themselves a member of something greater and make achievements to further the betterment of others find greatness.
Summary - guys in the regard your talking about are a dime a dozen. You won't find great men in bars or clubs, you'll find them in the community and helping others. Keep in mind that quality men are usually attracted to quality women. Take that last part however you want.
2006-08-28 08:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon 4 · 3⤊ 7⤋
It would be wrong to say that guys are emotionless. It is more like this that guys are in more control of their own emotions than most girls. When a guy goes for a girl he has already made up his mind of what he wants out of this girl. So if all he wants is sex he will come out of it in a snap. On the other hand when a girl goes out with a guy her emotions change almost every minute depending on how she feels being with the guy or how the guy treats her. It is common for a girl to go in with a intent of a casual relationship and get highly emotionally attached. Whereas it doesn't happen so with guys.
On teh flip side during worse life events because of this same factor you will notice that guys spring back from sadness faster than most women. It is just how the two sexes control their emotions. It is all the fault of testesterone and estrogen. Hope this explains ....
2006-08-28 08:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by GoodGuy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple to men it is just sex something to make their ***** feel relief. To women it is something more "love" as most smart women do not need a man to get sexual relief. So there for when women are doing the deed as you say to them the deed is love making but to men it is just sexual relief. Some women can also do this with out emotion. It is just more men are capable of this than women. When you find the right guy you will notice his focus with you is not just on sex that and they always look for a virgin cause they don't want a woman that was relieving some other guys sexual tension in the past.. Not all I hate to put all men in the same category this is just a general observation.
2006-08-28 08:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we are not emotionless we just learn how to hide them because guys get made fun of and unregarded as a male if they show there feelings in public and that just hurts more so when we are at a young age we figure that out if we show alot of emotion well be made fun of by girls and guys and that is messed up. but i also have learned not to care what others think of me as much as some people do so i show my emotions except when i am so upset that i cant keep cool then i just bottle it up and let it out when i am alone i dont if that is how all guys are it is the way i am and i have a few friends that are the same way. but we try not to show just how much we feel when we are in a bad situation because it just makes us choke up and cry even more to see a good friend suffer like that. that is only my experience i cant say that is the way the rest of the world works though but it might be.
2006-08-28 08:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Swift Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply because they don't see the deed (as you refer to it) as being anything but a sexual act without any emotional attachment, whereas we see it as a wonderful, emotional and passionate bond that we don't take lightly. I would not say that all guys are emotionless, but many are out for what they can get from a girl and then they move on- which is very cold.
2006-08-28 08:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the age range. Some need time to grow or to have something unfortunate to happen to them. You must also understand that their mission is to do the deed and go especially if it's easy to get, doesn't take much thought or emotion in that. Once the tables are turned on them then it's a whole different story.
2006-08-28 08:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys aren't as hormonal as women and i can do i, but I find that I end up calling them when they don't want me to, so I guess that they are just to busy to be emotional, because they have to work all day. But, if you ask me, they still think about it or you and eventually they will probably take a break at work and replay in their head and then just go about their business. That is what I have learned, but if they are obsessed with you then they will or should call your cell phone or something to let you know that they haven't forgot about you, but they don't normally do that and it is eventually going to hurt your feelings and make your self esteem go down to a point where you do see them and then it not the same anymore for a while, but it is fun when and while you are doing it. That's what counts and you can always find someone else who will do the same thing, it's a vicious circle. (Melissa)
2006-08-28 09:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by cinderella_9348 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are emotionless and even some girls can "do the deed" without involving emotions...
2006-08-28 08:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all,you are cutting a wide swath when you assume all guys are like this.Maybe you have had a bad experience or three but don't blame the whole male gender.Many of us are tender and caring.We just get a bad name because of the jerks out there.Same way with women.Some are real B------s and they ruin it for the good ones. You'll find the right guy.Just don't sleep with half the population before you do.
2006-08-28 08:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by zeus2quincy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not emotionless. They just bottle them up. Girls can be promiscuous too. Some people only know sex as a way to show feelings. Those that do it without feelings may have some severe psychological damage that they do not even know about.
2006-08-28 08:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't emotionless. Its just harder for them to express how they are feeling because guy's friends will tease and make fun of them if they show that they are emotional. I know plenty of guys who wont show any emotion unless they are by themselves because they are scared of rejection from their friends and classmates. You may think the guy has no emotions, but deep down he really does!
2006-08-28 10:59:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋