Long story short there was this lady having a rough time getting all her groceries, etc loaded in her car at Costco and I was waiting for her parking space so I put the car in park and helped her out and thought nothing of it...... for whatever this upset my wife. I have helped other women in the past without her minding but because this women was attractive it makes it different?
WHAT THE HELL!!!!
2006-08-28 08:23:43 · 20 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gosh, if someone got out of their car to help me load up my stuff at Costco I would be so grateful! Are there really people out there doing that???? and I don't think that I'm a 'dog' either!
Your wife is insecure. If you have always been the way that you are, she knew that going in....people are people no matter what the package is lookin' like. Sure, it's alittle harder to swallow when someone is a good looking woman, but then, she is a person too, after all....Keep it up, and keep smiling and tell her (your wife) to 'get on over it'. You did nothing wrong...your wife did.
2006-08-28 08:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think secretly you were driven to help this woman because she was attractive. I have never seen anyone get out of their car to help someone else load their groceries while waiting for their parking spot. There's nothing wrong with that, but I'm sure your wife didn't appreciate hearing about it (you've probably told her about it several times and I'm sure you added in how attractive this woman was and how big her breasts were) and I'm sure you would never do it for a man, or for an unattractive woman. Thus, she is now insecure about it because of how you described it. I think your wife is right to be bothered by it - mostly because you probably keep bringing it up. All you had to say was you help someone load their car up - when you told her she was attractive, that was your first mistake. My husband wouldn't do that for random strangers - I think your story is fishy.
2006-08-28 08:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For some reason ur wife has a jealousy issue, I hate to say it but have u made her that way for some reason? If not then explain to her that u are giving a helping hand and men that do that are few and FAR between. But if u have given her some reason to be jealous, then pay the price!
2006-08-28 08:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by fox69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop helping people, but next time if you are with your wife ask her if it is alright if you get out and help and if (when - she'll start to feel like a real horror if she says no all the time to helping someone) she says yes make sure you remind her how much you love her and how beautiful you think she is. Even married women like reassurance that their husband finds them beautiful.
2006-08-28 08:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by jane9715 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lets put this problem in this way...
if is your wife to help or talk with a man in front your nose
and she act with this attractive guy like a cat "warm feeling"
I am pretty sure you will jump out from the car and start screaming like a monkey...
is nothing wrong to what your wife have done
is called jealousy
2006-08-28 08:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u did a good thing but it wasnt some sweet old lady it was a nice looking one and that probably made her mad..you probably just wanted the spot and could see she needed help....one time me and my husband and his friend were driving in winter we turned down a street and this ladys car was stuck...they got out and shovelled her out..for like one second i was kinda pissed but then i realized im lucky to have such a nice husband! just tell ur wife u love her and it meant nothing u were just trying to be a nice guy and she should consider herself lucky..u could have honked at the lady and swore but instead u were a man!
2006-08-28 08:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with what you did. She's just jealous and since you helped an attractive woman she probably thinks that decision was made with the "other" brain.
2006-08-28 09:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. That is if you usually help out women. She should be grateful that she has a gentlemen for a husband.
2006-08-28 08:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell ! she may be jealous. but at the same time , a smart couple know each other's feelings , right?? you should know how she might feel. should understand each other better right? then there should not be any problem. past is past anyway.
2006-08-28 21:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by jaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it were me, I would probably be half-way between jealous because you were so chivalrous and pleased fro the same reason. We women are sometimes unreasonable like that.
2006-08-28 08:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋